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MikeOxbig
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Tue 05/13/08 11:30 AM
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Small children can not express in adult words what bothers them, instead they throw fits; I believe that throwing a fit, is not just that, they are expressing unhapiness, being uncomfortable, etc., Find out what is going on with him.  Thank you for talking about the siuation at hand the girl above you made it out like i was the drunkin father that beat his kid. |
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Unless you are living in the house with her day to day, how can you know what she does? It is wrong to assume. This is your son's mother.... And I do NOT MEAN physical discipline. [/quote Very good point, my son tells his dad all kinds of crazy stuff...they are little and by the way LOVE to play one parent against the other. And being sneeky about degrading your childs mother is very wrong, in the end your child will resent YOU for it! |
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Yeah ive talked to him alot about things. especillay his mother my thing is that she likes to party and watch the Life time movie channel..... The man haters network. the kid is always playing video games or just watching TV. When one of HER shows are on there is no talkin and she dosent answer the phone to anyone but her mom or sister. that's not being a mother...can you get full custody????? I dont think i could take my son away from her. she is a good mom dont get me wrong. She just does somethings that i dont agree with. |
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Edited by
MikeOxbig
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Tue 05/13/08 01:51 PM
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ok wow, i feel as if i am in the wrong here and all i did was try to get some insight on this whole thing sorry its my first kid and first major seperation. No i dont beat my son, No i dont talk smack about my ex especially to my son, she is still a good friend of mine. I deffinatly aint talkin smack about her on here. I do everything for him that i possibly can. And for her the same. So thank you for the insight to those of you that understood me.
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I will tell you what i would do if it was my kid since this sounds like a often issue with your son.
First I would call my insurance and get a list of psycologist not psychatrist and find one that deal with children. I would find one I liked tell them of the problems I am seeing and ask them to visit with my son and find out what is bothering him. Kids always love their mommy's + son never wanting to be with mommy = SOMETHING VERY VERY WRONG |
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Yeah ive talked to him alot about things. especillay his mother my thing is that she likes to party and watch the Life time movie channel..... The man haters network. the kid is always playing video games or just watching TV. When one of HER shows are on there is no talkin and she dosent answer the phone to anyone but her mom or sister. Sounds like he is being ignored when he is with his mom. Kids that age need alot of attention and stimulation, which is what he gets when with you and sounds like he is not getting enough when with mom. Thats a hard one, can't really say anything to his mom but maybe talk to your son and see if the two of you can come up with a resolution. My son never sees his father so I don't have issues that way. |
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my son always threw fits about going to dads and then threw fits about coming home.Its called testing the waters.I'm sure the separation has been hard on him and since he has no way of expressing that,sometimes kids act out.
I would just talk to Mom about limiting the video games and as for the TV maybe she is pooped. I sometimes ,after working all day,only have the energy to flop in front of the TV myself.I also cannot wrestle with my son well because its just weird being a woman and all. Anyway keep the lines of communication open with the ex and always if possible ,show a united front.Good Luck. |
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