first off i know this situation is wrong but you cant help how you feel
right

im very much in love with my cousins girlfriend it started as friendship
love but the more that we talked the more we started to like each other
and i did confess how i felt for her and to my suprise she felt the same
she tells me im the only one she can trust to talk to about stuff she
wont tell anyone else and vise versa we were all at my friends party at
his house and we were the only two in the room with the pool table she
wasnt drinking and i was my friend walked in and said we were making out
and both half naked but i honestly do not remember a thing she wont tell
me what happened and my friend refuses to say anymore on the subject and
when i heard that i said that i should stay a way from her because
things was getting to serious and shouldnt of happened but she started
to cry and told me that i couldnt leave because she loves me to much but
wont leave my cousin for me stay with me it gets more complicated well a
month or two later she tells me she is preganent so we eventually got
closer no sex just closer and when she was at work my cousin came to my
house with another girl his ex to be exact and said they was going to a
movie and wanted me to go with that just wasnt going to happen i ended
up throwing them both out of my house i havent told her about this and
dont know if i should i dont know what to do about that i mean there
isnt a day goes by i dont think of her she is always on my mind my
cousin found out from my friend about the making out but nothing else if
anything else i dont know cause i cant remember and he says i am
forgiven if i dont say anything about his fling he says they both got it
out of there system now they can move on i was offered a job out west
and when she found out she litterally begged me to stay because she
didnt know what she would do if i left and i passed up the job and think
i did the wrong thing i should have went but i love her way to much if
we dont talk everyday she emails me wondering whats wrong

so my question to yous is am i being played or does she not know what
she wants is she confused am i being to much of a push over im just not
understanding it would help if i could see it from a womans point of
view

thanks very much

Hi Husky!
Didn't we just do this the other day???
Ok! for starters, you know it's wrong! what are you asking if somebody
tells you oohhhh! you should stay because she asked you,, You know
it's wrong!!! think about where your loyalty should be???
blood will always be thicker!!
How can you have any respect for her or yourself..
How would you feel if your g/f & your cousin were both lieing &
cheating on you?? Why was she at a party with out him???
is there no other girls in that town that you would act so hard up to
mess with his girl????
For her to even ask you to stay like that & give up a job offer, she
is very selfish & childish!!! for your cousin sake you should hope he
doesnt marry her. if she hasnt even been honest so far why would she be
any differnt later??

I'm done!!! this is really a point less thread!! check to see if you
still have a offer & go!! you cant change what you've done, but you
sure can be smart enough to right the wrong!!

whoa damn... (ouch)... but I agree with her.

looks like a vicious triangle.

I was tryin not to sugar coat it!!
In life you always have 2 pathes to choose from, If you choose to stay
you will always be the third wheel!!!
Because you've let it happen! she doesn't have to give either up!! so
everytime he's out runnin around she'll be cryin to you, you'll have to
make due with taking care of his woman!!

Forget the Job offer, can you imagine how much you can make on the Jerry
Springer show? Dude, if you can nail your Cu's Ex GF I'll bet you can
get a movie out of it after the Springer show (at least a 2nd
episode)....

HUSKY NOT AGAIN give it up dude move on PLEASE for our sakes dizzydean5

CAN NOT believe anyone would write this a second time.
Grow up, do what is right.
You were my son would say you need a spanking,BABY boy.

seen this before.....wowwwwwww an i thought i was srewed up .....lolol
husky listen to these people before you end really messed up.

husky, that's enough, man move the **** on!! I told you before
you are being played, because if she really love you she would leave
your cousin and come clean with him, and tell him her true feelings and
Im sure he would respect that, but she is cheating on him and on you
even if you don't see it that way,
the way you are feeling for her is impairing your judgment,
therefore you can't see that your being played like a sucker !!

i thought that was being played like a fiddle morena.hehehehehe