Hello Blonde (don't be discouraged),

A few words of encouragement and rules to follow:

1. Ask them questions up front. Do not hold back on what you
want to know.

2. Limit your feelings because you could get a bad surprise from them
like they already have a girlfriend or are married.

3. My favorite, Good Old TIME....TIME TELLS IT ALL!

If I haven't learned anything in life, I've learned that time will give
me all the answers I need. Be patient and be up front with whomever,
whether on line or face to face.
Better you try out to find out NOW than Later.

I hope that helps you...believe me I recently went through some
drama....and I'm cool now.