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Topic: Has anyone here
transientmind Joined Sat 03/10/07 Posts: 4827	Sun 05/11/08 11:56 PM
what about the other way around Nope.

Marie55 Joined Wed 08/30/06 Posts: 7007	Mon 05/12/08 12:10 AM
Never dated a married man. But, had an "online" semi-serious relationship with a guy on here for 10 months, he was married but separated for 13 years, at least that was his story. Turned out I was just being played, wss really stupid and let myself buy into the fantasy he was spewing too. Talk about stupid - hope I get smarter with age, don't want to get hurt like that again.

Vegasman27 Joined Tue 07/03/07 Posts: 261	Mon 05/12/08 12:22 AM
i went on a blind date with a person that i knew they where married, and she wanted out of the being married to a bum and we went on just one date and it was only one cause she was way older then i thought she was, from a friend at work that seat the whole thing up at the time. Sometime's i'm glad it didn't go any further with that person.

smuflicker Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 4019	Mon 05/12/08 01:46 AM
no i haven't

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Mon 05/12/08 01:51 AM
I dated someone who was separated for quite a while... his wife was dating, too... they ended up dumping their dates and getting back together. Also, some other jerk I went out with a few times who actually used his baby to try to win me over was VERY married and lied his butt off about it. I found out when she called my house one day. He stalked me for awhile after that, glad he finally got the message I wasn't interested.

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Mon 05/12/08 01:52 AM
nope i haven't i'm seperated myself right now and refuse to be date anyone until my divorce is final..new relationships are hard enough without the added stress of all the things that come with a divorce...but i will still make friends and keep my options open for the future

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Mon 05/12/08 01:54 AM
Went out with a guy years ago that was, but he didn't say he was married (I asked and he lied can you believe that). I found out when his wife came to see me where I worked. Nice situation, I was a bartender, brought her a beer and called him to let him know his wife was there to see him. Needless to say he was history after that. So after that didn't go out with men until they were checked out real good.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Mon 05/12/08 04:09 AM
I am sure people will judge me for this, but years ago I fell in love with a married man. Our kids swam together so we spent a lot of time together; he stayed married just for his kids; his wife knew about me and she and I talked about it; and she basically just didn't want to work so she didn't want a divorce. They hadn't been intimate for 10 years. My feeling is at least he had a little bit of happiness before he dies, and so did I.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Mon 05/12/08 04:21 AM
No I haven't.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Mon 05/12/08 04:42 AM
no and never will

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 05/12/08 04:49 AM
Ya actually I did. BUT .. I didn't know it until he had 'put me up' in an apartment yada yada .. and the wife called. Hmmm talk about a good thing gone bad We made his life a living hell after that

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 05/12/08 04:50 AM
This is a singles site so,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,what a married person should do here ? uhhhh we DID have lives before we showed up to JSH (actually we should still have lives outside of here ) so I think Wrongman meant anytime in our lives ... just a thought

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Mon 05/12/08 05:01 AM
yes, but i was younger and stupid back then.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Mon 05/12/08 08:28 AM
yes....unknowingly so since i had chatted with him for 2 yrs and known him to have other girlfriends in past....... he lived alone and all was seperated for 8 yrs.... well under that circumstance when i found out like a month later i still dated him for a bit..... but i would never do it again.... funny thing is after i quit seeing him him and his wife got back together? no wonder they never divorced they werent done with each other after 8 yrs i guess..... again i should of left after the month i found out...

redday88 Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 22	Mon 05/12/08 08:36 AM
I dated someone who was separated for quite a while... his wife was dating, too... they ended up dumping their dates and getting back together. that happened to me also...

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Mon 05/12/08 08:43 AM
Nope.... but I can say I get an e-mail at least every other day from a married or separated guy wanting to meet. Actually, they mostly say, want to chat? To the married ones I say, Oh yes, I want to talk about your wife and why you are philandering. To the seperated ones I usually say, about what, your divorce? But I can be kind and give the standard, I don't date married in any form. Good luck, tongue in cheek. You can't start a relationship until the one you are in is over. JMO

mzrightkris Joined Sun 05/11/08 Posts: 433	Mon 05/12/08 09:03 AM
Yea I have, it doesn't work out..... even if he makes you feel like your the only one that matters. You end up being his escape route when he has a bad day with reality.

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Mon 05/12/08 09:10 AM
Nope.... but I can say I get an e-mail at least every other day from a married or separated guy wanting to meet. Actually, they mostly say, want to chat? To the married ones I say, Oh yes, I want to talk about your wife and why you are philandering. To the seperated ones I usually say, about what, your divorce? But I can be kind and give the standard, I don't date married in any form. Good luck, tongue in cheek. You can't start a relationship until the one you are in is over. JMO I'm divorced. My friend is currently seperated and trying to get divorced for 2 years. The "husband" won't grant the petition for the divorce even though he has a fiancee.