If say you have been talking to someone for a time here at JSH , and things seemed to be going pretty decent then you get this letter stating she has been sleeping with one of the players from here and has now dumped him because hes busted .
But now wants to know more about you on the phone . also you had no ideal there was someone else involved .

Do you respect the honesty and call or feel played yourself and move on ?

need some family advice here ppl..

I would move on..

Move on, if she was showing you interest and sleeping with somone else. Hm, isn't that what you might call leading somone on?

Do the online equivalent of hoppin' in yo' Corvette and leaving block-long tire marks as you vamoose outta there. If she's lied (or not apprised you of items of a personal nature in the least), there's no telling what ELSE she's NOT told you.

It's simply NOT worth the trouble.

Move on.

online is just that..You have nothing until you meet and find out if you click or not.. Jealousy would say stay away but really what do we expect on here? 95% of the people are talking to more than one person, you never know what's going to happen and you're making friends all the time... I wouldn't judge to harshly unless you'd met and discussed being exclusive then found this out.. jmho

I couldn't agree more!

kind of what i was thinking ... but this still suxs ... thanks for the input wise one .. was hoping youd hit this one ,,,

No expectations here unless otherwise stated. People can hide behind their screens and say what they want, or pretend to be someone they arent. aww crap, where was I going with this......

Well that is a run situation...Run!!

I know it does hon but we have to be realistic.. Don't think I've not gotten caught up and crushed I did once.. Thank you for respecting my opinion

think i know what you were saying ... i flurt alot and give compliments were they are due but i dont think ive ever crossed the line to were i havent been myself ... just as in life outside of JSH im staight up , you get what you see .. guess i just learned something ... and that is that not everyone is ... its ashame to because there are so many good ppl looking for that true match .. and if we'd just be ourselfs maybe we would really find them ... and i also know most of us are ...

agreed

I do not know enough about the situation to determine what you should do. I don't think it is a clear thing. I also am not happy with the advice I give my self so that is a fair warning.

1. She told you the truth. That earns some points in my book.

2. She is not with the person and now wants to talk with you. If she was still with him and wanted to also pursue you then forget that.

3. I don't know the relationship you had with her or what she is really about. We all make mistakes.

I can't really answer defiitively as others can what you should do. Follow your head, follow your heart, or follow their advice. I would definitely discuss your feelings with her about what she had done and your doubts. If you are going to kick her to the curb what do you have to lose.