was getting hot and heavy (for an online relationship)between emails,
im's, and phone conversations. Thought this could be 'the one'.
Then...nothing. It doesnt feel any different than losing somone that
you've met and dated face to face. I just dont know why he cant tell me
what happened. Any way to find out?

maybe you were too hot for him,and it scared him off???

BTW...nice tattoo!

Thanks about the tatoo. Still dont think its cuz i'm hot. If it was
that he'd have shown up at my door.

Been in several sites & MY opinion, to many people use this system to
pose an alter ego. Members of both sex's use it to play with people's
feelings. Sorry you got bit, just don't quit trying. There are a lot
of decent people out here, but they are being careful. You always hear
about the jerks, success stories are a lot fewer.

angel, there is a lot we will never know. if he doesn't have the trust
in you to tell you why he isn't talking to you anymore, why would you
want to continue with it. already seeing a warning sign..........good
luck.

Amgel, when someone acts in that way, it is better to let it go. you
know who you are and he is missing.
His lose, someone else's gain lol

maybe he got caught cheating on his g/f or wife ? or if he was single
was just playing games...

can t say without more info.

good point kojack. Besides... what do we REALLY know about someone WE
dont really know... ?

Like...?

Yea i know what you mean angelicdemoness. That sort of happened to me
recently. I like this guy but I'm too young for him. He just doesnt take
me seriously. It's better to move on then dwell on what could've,
should've and would've. You can ask him flat out but he'll either tell
you the truth or lie to you. I avoid rejection by all means so i wouldnt
ask him i'd just move on and assume he died or something lol. It sucks
being disappointed by some1 u thought you liked.

If you ask all the right questions you can get to know that person
pretty well stormy. And Your feelings can and will get hurt.I can see
how this happens.If he doesn't get back to you Demoness, he's most
likely just scared of his feelings.

Somewhat true DANE... but... emails... letters... IM's... phone
conversations... without any physical contact leaves ya' WIDE open for
many things that you could NEVER know, especially with distance
involved. Anyone can TELL you any thing. They can MAKE themselves out
to be ANY thing THEY choose. I'm certainly not saying that everyone
does so...I dont... but then how would you know that? Folks just need
to be more careful and be less serious... until an actual REAL LIVE
relationship evolves. We are people with feelings and can be very
vulnerable.

That is right Stormy, and if you can't trust them online, you sure can't
trust them in real life. Better to get hurt now and move on than to
have it go farther and get hurt worse.

Hey Sluggo, a little too much estrogen with your morning coffee??? Good
pic.

I know the feeling all too well. They can't even have the balls to
explain what happened. I look at it this way "His Loss" Same thing
happened on her too me. So I still search who knows what tomorrow will
bring.