another date posted this lovely face so i went to see her

she was 6 ft..............................................wide
and she just said a few extra pounds My god she must have bought a wigh bridge from eBay

If I knew the guy had a crappy personality, I wouldn't have gone out with him on a first (and only) date. I wouldn't have wasted my gas money. The problem is, SOOOO many people think they can get away with lying about who they are and put up a false front. Why lie? I say let it all hang out and see if anyone wants you.

I'm always up front and feel others should be the same. Who cares if you piss some people off by your openness, at least you aren't pretending to like them and giving them a false sense of hope!

I look like my pictures and I say "A Few Extra Pounds" because I do have a few more (about 25) than I prefer and I'm working on that. I consider myself obese compared to an anorexic woman and anorexic to an obese woman. Take it or leave it, I'm happy with me, even with a few extra pounds!

It's always entertaining to see guys sweat when I tell them my weight, and then they see me and tell me, "WOW, you hold your weight well."

Newsflash, the majority of America does NOT weigh 117 lbs or less.