Journey ~ I'm so sorry. While it is no comfort now, I'm sure it is his loss!

THis woman does not run if he has children. Actually, I like being able to see how a man interacts with his children.. it helps me to better see who he is and how he really walks thru Life

Thanks! He is actually what inspired my name on here and my new way of thinking. Life is sending me on a new journey, all I would like is for someone to come along to take the journey with me.

I seen how this one was. He was wrapped around her little finger. Whatever she says, goes. No matter what! He dropped everything and did what she said. No matter how insane or expensive!

No, I run from jerk-offs. Kids or not.

Nope, I would not run because he has kids. That would be pretty hypocritical of me since I have 5 of my own. I would think there would have to be alot of communication though. I come from a family with stepbrothers and stepsisters and half brothers and half sisters. I watched what my parents went through and my hat goes off to them. Because us kids put them through their paces to be sure!

I have one child. I wanted more. I would welcome more children with open arms.

My problem is that I have found men with adult children that didn't want to start over with mine.

perfect example of what i was saying... i hear ya journey... im going through that too... so i retreat to my computer room when they are here anymore cause any problems it is my fault or if something gets broken<like my 4k bedroom set> and not fixed. it is never them it is their friends fault or mine.. and big arguments occur rather just be alone on those weekends... tv is all for them..<although i pay for it> one cable hookup here.. and wheni get the bill there are 30 dollar extra charges for movies on it... and comfront all i get is hummm i dunno.. were they here that weekend? lets look at calender.. whatever!!! im not up at 11 pm or 1 am! i thank gawd that my daughter wasnt here that weekend or im sure whe would of been blamed... it got discussed with his kids by him... of course the answer was.... no we didnt do it .. it was our cousin.... and of course the princes and princesses didnt do that either as you know.... see its not the kids... its the reactions of the parents is all im saying.......

I know what you mean Buttons...her dad travelled a lot with work. He was gone 3 to 4 weeks at a time, or more. So he expected me to deal with her all the time. She would tell him I was being mean to her...blah, blah, blah. He would take her side and not even listen to mine. It was best for me to leave the relationship and try to move on.