... and we been talking for a while now... err I met him on here... at first it was just a "hey he is cute" thing then we emailed and did the forum flirt thing... we have spoken on the phone regularly and he def has potential to be more... problem is I always kept my heart shielded and told myself only friends only friends because he lives so far away... well come to find out he will be moving down to my area to attend a college here... i don't know what to think of it all now... i am excited but oh so nervous... idk what i am doing anymore...

i need advice on how to handle it all

continue to take things slow and see how things develop! enjoy the ride!

What she said.

Brush your shoulder off, And put your game face on, cuz it sound like it's on

Just be yourself and if it works out that you are more than friends great if not then you can still be friends...just go with the flow and take things slow...good luck....

One day at a time. Sounds like the two of you enjoy speaking with one another. If he will be closer now, why don't you just see what happens with no expectations? Nothing wrong with keeping your heart shielded but be able to give it again to a deserving person. Good luck

well before when we talked i enjoyed it very much and we laugh constantly which is a major plus for me, and well him, as well but now when we talk i get butterflies in my tummy.... i feel so silly saying this here ha ha ha

Enjoy your good luck.

I wonder if he's going to read this forum...He'll knwo how ya feel and what your thinking