I was just asking because someone I was dating a long time ago would go out with her friends, no biggie at all, I encouraged it. Well, it became an issue because the only time I was getting with her was "after" she was out with her friends she would come over, usually a little ipsy because they were out drinking. She would just fall asleep and say that "that" was our time together. There was never any time where we would all go out an hang out, just her. I would sit at home waiting for some time with her. She would just say, well, in a little while. So, I wouldnt go do anything hoping that there would be an early nite one of those times.

She was a lot younger than me so maybe it's just the way things are, I dont know. Anyways, thanks for the answers