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Topic: If ya cant be with the one you love...
EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 05/07/08 12:47 AM
I hope I answered your question earlier when u emailed me... I was rushed, but hopefully you got the point. Did I clarify it enough for you? Good luck flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Wed 05/07/08 06:35 AM
Man or woman....it hurts like hell to know that the person you are with really doesn't feel the way that you do. And like was mentioned earlier, she may say she understands and accepts it, but deep down it hurts her like hell and for some reason she stays cause she feels that she can't do better or she stays cause she hopes the longer you are with her you will eventually let go of your ex and your feelings for her will change.

I have a friend who is with a woman (has been with her for over 5 years now). He does care for her an all but he doesn't feel the same way as she does about him. She loves him, and has tried things to "make" him love her....but it never works. Yet, she stays cause she has this false hope his feelings will change. I don't get that. Never would stay with someone if they didn' feel the same way as I did. It's not fair to either person.

Anyways, you have to move on. It is easier for some to move on cause they can accept it better. People who can't or won't accept it will always find it hard to move on. But no matter what, you have to move on.

puckthefackers's photo
Wed 05/07/08 08:53 AM

I am sure most of us have heard the song that goes "If ya cant be with the one ya love, love the one you're with". This is making some sense, as I find myself in a situation where I have to do this....

....How fair is it for the one I'm with? Does it mean she is second best? How do you just stop loving someone to love another so it is fair?


The more I think about it, the more I realize the person that wrote that song does not know what the hell they are talking about! happy

It really wouldnt be fair to the one you are with to be in love with someone else.

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Wed 05/07/08 09:00 AM
I think that with the term love.....alot of men equate that with sex........so if you cant be with the one you love = sex........love= sex with the one your with.......noway laugh noway

puckthefackers's photo
Wed 05/07/08 09:05 AM

I think that with the term love.....alot of men equate that with sex........so if you cant be with the one you love = sex........love= sex with the one your with.......noway laugh noway




You had me at sex. :heart: :heart: :heart:

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Wed 05/07/08 09:07 AM


I think that with the term love.....alot of men equate that with sex........so if you cant be with the one you love = sex........love= sex with the one your with.......noway laugh noway




You had me at sex. :heart: :heart: :heart:
laugh blushing laugh

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