Hmm.. Well I guess if it works for you then adapt away. It doesnt seem to be working all that well for you though. At least from what I have read here. Good luck to you though!

Well, sorry to get you all upset and eager to whoop some ass but I'm headed out to my 200k yr blue collar job refinishing metal for rich people, lol.

Bye all

Well said, I agree..

What is supposed to be "WORKING" here? None of these girls are even remotely close, do you think this thread was an attempt to gain exposure to half of the country? lol I was looking for opinions and temoporary insanity relief to pass time and I got that far. Toodles to all and to all *children and ex husbands, and ex husbands families* a wonderful evening ! :)

Sorry but me is leaving this Kid alone he has alot of growing up to do.

yeh one day he might see..doubt

I'm so glad not everyone has kids. Some people just weren't meant to.


**disclaimer** this isn't for the people who want them but aren't able to have them, it's just for the people who don't want them ever but have them

Here's my $2.00 worth. I see a woman with children as a double blessing. At 43 and having wasted my time in multiple relationships that didn't create children, I have to consider the obvious fact that if I were to have children of my own, I would be confused as their grandfather at graduation.

As for the "I don't mind kids" part, I really think you do mind kids, otherwise you wouldn't have initiated this thread. A healthy dose of selflessness is mandatory for a healthy relationship, especially with children. We can get away with a little selfishness in adult relationships, but not much before bitterness sets in, and sometimes takes hold. I can't tell you how much happiness I get from doing things for a family of 3 with 1 deadbeat dad and one dad in prison. When that 4 year old puts her arms up for a hug because she knows I sincerely care about her well being and then when her big sister yanks at my hair and pokes me in the eye, well, I guess you had to be there. The mother is just a friend, but if you ever have the opportunity to be a friend to someone with kids, take it. It's worth every minute.

Wow. That's impressive. It's all just stuff. Real wealth is in family. Money is just means.

The funny thing about this whole thing? It don't matter what site, what country, what state, or city you go to or live in. That you will not find that there are not many women/girls that don't have kids.

I jumped through this thread and was reading how you call women with kids baggage and in your post you say i don't mind kids at all. The truth is you do! and thats what this topic is about. you being interested in someone and knowing how they have a child and me looking at this thread, Your saying how can i have her with out having to deal with the child.

The fact of life in this day an age. Women are going to have a child by the age 21 if not younger. Either you except that or you don't, but to complain about it on the forum. It shows the lack of reaspet for women knowing your attentions was not to ask a real question. This was a game and you lost....