alright so say that ur in a relationship and ur best friend (guy)
doesn't like the guy 4 sum very good reasons but u can't see y he
doesn't like him and u think u love him what would u do

i would stick with my lover.

You should trust in your friends judgement because he didn't become your
best friend for no reason.

mary_anchor why would you take your lover side? Is it because you shared
a few charished moments together or is it because he is there right now.
Well a true best friend has your best intrest in heart. He will be
happy for you when you find a good thing and have your back when things
go down. That's why years of friendship pays off more than a few nights
of passion.

first if there was something ur best friend didnt like maybe its because
he cant see u being with sum1 his type n hes use to u with another type.
also if he was truly ur best friend he would be there no matter what u
chose. so u shouldnt have to choose a side best friends would never make
u choose between a guy or them.

Have a talk with your friend find out y it is that he doesn't like the
other guy. Because of the fact the he has an outside look and no ties to
the other guy, your friend might see the other guy's true colors, so
talk with him he's probably just trying to protect you from harm in one
form or another.

follow ur heart . maybe ur bestfriend (guy) likes you and doesn't want u
to be with this other guy. every think of it that way ppl

or maybe your best friend really just wants you for himself but doesnt
have the guts to say so because he doesnt want to lose you to his
feelings
it happens all the time
just my opinion maybe you could look at your friend and say something
like why can t i meet a guy like you...
then see how he reacts...
im willing to bet theres a possibility that hes just wanting you for
himself
and missed his chance when you started dating your new guy

If my best friend can't give me a reason and my lover has shown me
nothing but love, I would stay with my lover. But if my best friend
does have a good reason why I shouldn't stay around then I wouldn't.

it's definitely looking into, all of the response could be true but you
should take everything you hear with a grain of salt and make your own
decision, don't let anyone try to preesure you into any type of choice.
i had a gf one time and her friends were telling her stuff about me but
what they told her that they had seen me do actually turned out to be a
bunch of 3rd hand gossip and it caused alot of unnecessary tension in my
relationship. they are right someone who really care for your well being
would not make you choose

Actually, I would talk to the guy friend, see why he doesn't like the
guy I'm with, and then have the both of them talk it out.

...just my humble two cents.

that would be a really good idea sunshine, if they were both mature
adults.

ok say u talked 2 ur friend and he talks 2 ur lover but things are
still awkward what would u do if the man u suposably love says t him or
me ........................

see that's dificult for me to answer because i'm the type of person who
hates it when people try to give me ultimatums. i would never make
someone choose and they know that if they did try to give me an
ultimatum that i might just drop em both for trying to get me caught up
in their problem. they don't have to spend time around each other and i
think it's petty to try to take it out on you

you have to hang in there. because you are attractive you probably do
draw alot of guys who are only interested in your looks but you will
find someone who fits your ideal person mold you just have to be patient

Or maybe I don't know, maybe someone on here really likes you bliss and
won't do you wrong, what would you say to that? I won't say who till you
email me on a personal message. but I will say you have talked to him b4
on the phone. I promise you'll be surprized.

hi there.

and this one bliss

TOO much Drama..TOO much possesiveness I have already been burned by
that one..WILL

Well, I remember being the best friend long time ago and somewhere along
the way I lost my objectivity because I Really had a hidden agenda. So
what do you get the most out of, sex or friendship? Friends don't make
friends make choices they go on being friends thru thick and thin.