YOU KNOW IT MAKES ME KIND OF SAD THE WAY THINGS HAVE CHANGE YOU USE TO
BE ABLE TO SPEAK TO PEOPLE YOU KNOW JUST HI HOW YOU DOING HAVE A GREAT
DAY THINGS LIKE THAT , AND GET A GOOD RESPONSE IN RETURN,YOU TELL A LADY
HI AND YOU ALMOST GET CUSSED OUT OR YOU GET THIS LOOK AS THOUGH YOU
KILLED SOMEONE, NOW I KNOW THAT WHEN I SPEAK TO PEOPLE IT,S JUST THE WAY
I WAS BROUGHT UP TO BE KIND AND CURTIOUS TO PEOPLE I DONT HAVE A PLOT TO
HURT SOMEONE OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT JUST BEING ME BEING MYSELF BEING NICE
.ESPECIALLY IF I AM IN THE COMPANY OF A NICE LADY I AM ALWAYS GOING TO
SPEAK TO ONE OF THEM AND HOPE TO EXCHANGE A FRIENDLY GREETING BUT I
GUESS THOSE DAYS ARE GONE SOMEBODY TELL ME I'M WRONG (TY IN PENNA)

you say it makes you kind of sad that things have changed because of the
way a lady responds to you when you say hi but then your just judging
because like you say that there are still nice guys out there well there
are still nice girls out here too. you just need to find the right
person.

There're still nice girls here, you just need to keep searching. best of
luck.

I for one is a nice girl , yet some of my friend say that I'm too nice
plus a have a winning smile. But good luck with the women for we are out
there

HELLO
NO YOU ARE NOT WRONG!!...STAY AS YOU ARE

I personally am a very happy person. I always have & always will be. I
say hi to everyone & wave to people as I drive down the street. If those
ladies look at you wrong to bad for them. They have a chip on their
shoulder. Forget them! Chivalry will never die! Be the happiest & best
person you can be. I did a personal study while I was at High school. I
know a long time ago. Anyway I smiled to a few people I would walk past
in the hallway. At first they didn't even look at me. I would say hi &
smile my biggest smile. After awhile of doing this I noticed some poeple
responded to me & then started to say hi to me back. One person even
told me they looked forward to my hellos. It was a great feeling to know
I could make someone else feel good.

don't change, alot of people aren't openly friendly on the street
anymore because they are in such a rush and they don't expect a stranger
to just say hi anymore unless they want something but like aurorasmiles
said, if you put yourself out there and open the door(figuratively)for
them it will make it easier for them and they will walk through that
door with open arms. good luck to you, don't let it get you down

Hey I agree a little with all of them. The nice girls ARE still out
there, just search a little. And yes definitly stay as you are, when
you find that nice girl, she will appreciate you and your KINDNESS!!!!!

Nope, you're not wrong, chivalry is still alive

Please dont Change!!!!
There are alot of us out here that hope to find someone like you.
Best of Luck to you.
Sherry

Chivalry is still alive!!!!
I try to talk with everyone I come in contact with because you never know where you will find that special person. The ones that just walk away are the ones that are missing out on a beautiful conversation.Just keep your head held high and never change,that special someone will find you.
Good luck

i think the biggest question is what happens when a good guy gets hurt one too many times, what then, cause it puts a bad taste in their mouth about treating people certain ways, cause it winds up getting them hurt. and yeah i speak from experiance

i agree.don't change..a nice gyu would be great after the jerks i have dated.
Becca

stay the way you are because there are alot of very nice women here too

I totally agree with you! It used to be a man like us, could compliment a lady and she'd at least say, "Thank you", regardless of enthusiasm. Lately, when I compliment someone, she ignores me. Maybe that's a reason some men, are into mail order brides.

hey man I know what you saying too. I all way try to treat some like I want to be treated. I say this go and still treat them like you wanted to be treated .I look at it like this they just dont know how treat a good man . just becouse they want to live a mess up live dont mean we have too. there got to be some good ladys out there they just scared too look becouse of the way they had been treated. I going to still treat ever one like I want to be treated and one day I hope I find me a lady who like some to treat me right . have a blessed great day.!!!!!! Im just keep on looking

I always just smile and say hi when I see a lady, she either smiles back and says hi, or just ignores it. I don't take it personal when they ignore it, maybe they had a reason, even if they didn't, who cares? I don't know them anyway.