Topic: a dilemma of dilemma-esque proportions... | |
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Edited by
No1sLove
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Sun 05/04/08 07:30 PM
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The wheelchair should make no difference...period.
As for the people, I'd leave and take her someplace where the patrons have more class. |
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If I've spent enough time getting to know that person, then yes, I would finish the date, and I dare ANYONE to make rude comments about ANYONE I associate with. Yeah what Lily said..it shouldn't matter if they are in a wheelchair or not..and think about people..maybe said person was afraid to say anything about it because of previous rejections for being in a wheel chair...ya bet ya didn't think about that did yas... I mean how much disclosure do you give someone? Hey, I have a scar on my leg, one on my face, my nose is crooked. This one time in band camp........ Give me a break, people are people. If you would be embarrassed about spending time with that person, it says more about your character than it does theirs. Thats the point I was trying to make, thank you Lily for putting it in simpler terms. You've got a good soul. |
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I got no problem with the wheelchair.....
but the scar on the leg from band camp...... that just grosses me out............ |
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I got no problem with the wheelchair..... but the scar on the leg from band camp...... that just grosses me out............ The scar on my leg was from when I rolled my bike. |
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I got no problem with the wheelchair..... but the scar on the leg from band camp...... that just grosses me out............ The scar on my leg was from when I rolled my bike. you rolled your bike...at band camp???? |
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I got no problem with the wheelchair..... but the scar on the leg from band camp...... that just grosses me out............ The scar on my leg was from when I rolled my bike. you rolled your bike...at band camp???? Yes, over your head...REMEMBER? |
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I got no problem with the wheelchair..... but the scar on the leg from band camp...... that just grosses me out............ The scar on my leg was from when I rolled my bike. you rolled your bike...at band camp???? Yes, over your head...REMEMBER? In have memory loss......it's terrible.... ever sinse someone ran over my head... at band camp......sorry.... I dont dismember..... |
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In have memory loss......it's terrible.... ever sinse someone ran over my head... at band camp......sorry.... I dont dismember..... Like the guy from momento? |
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What other people say doesn't matter. If there is a disability that either I or my partner can cope with and accept - that's fine. I have a disability and have been with a long term partner with a disability.
However, someone misrepresenting themselves in a big way - prior to a meet - is not cool and I would probably not stay long on the date or date them again. The factor here is honesty. I would wonder what else (i.e. marital status, STDs, debt, substance abuse, ability to keep a job) they were capable of lying to me about. |
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