literrally guys eithier leave me for other girls.........or cheat................and they are not evne better looking htey jsut say iam too nice what the hell iam too nice or iam too childish.................what hte hell that soppossed too do wiht it..i mean i found i clisk iwht someone on ehre really well .......but iam afraid of getting hurt agian

theres mr right out there somewhere....youll find him

aww thanks i know iam talking too a guy iam really clicking with...............but iam just afraid of getting hurt again

Yeah, I'm afraid of getting hurt again as well. But, you know what? We can't move forward in this life without opening ourselves up and fearlessly stepping up.

I'm still afraid that I'll meet a girl that I'll fall head over heels for and end up getting screwed over for my emotional investment. But, you know what? I still go out night after night, meeting and getting to know new people.

I'm still afraid of exposing too much about myself in my personal interactions with women. But, you know what? I realize that it's holding me back from being able to connect with others as much as I can and I'm going to change it. I'm going to talk more about myself. Previously, I hardly did. I was just protecting myself but I realize I have to open up to make progress.

The obstacles thrown at you... will they break you down or make you stronger and build you character?

There's some saying that goes, "Love as if you've never been hurt" or something like that. Think about what that means to you.

If you expect it to happen, if you mentally condone or collude with it to happen, it will. You must be firm in your own mind about what you will tolerate or accept in a partner - and then stick with it. Action speaks louder than words.

Another thing to consider, do you own your beliefs and feelings? Do you really believe and live by what you say you want.