I think people HERE should just STOP.

Stop acting like,

life is a dream of two hearts floating endlessly in perfect

harmony,,,just STOP.

Try THIS first, hey,,you,,,LETS SLEEP together,,,THEN,,,

IF YOUR GREAT....WE CAN START LOOKING DOWN LIFE'S ROAD,

AS OUR future. So PLEASE just STOP!!

Don't think. Don't wait. Don't ANYTHING,,just STOP!

And LET'S JUST "DO IT", Then WE CAN KNOW AND BE REAL!

And THEN, YOU will never want to say or here, JUST STOP!

Life is short folks and sooooo many act like like and fantasy is ALL their DESIRE, then they want to solely JUDGE anothert on performance in the bedroom, or just want to mis-lead another to ONLY have SEX with-THEM...so,,,PLEASE be adult ENOUGH to at least """STATE"" your TRUTH to "THEM".......
Just my thoughts here on a dating site where ALL SOUNDS REAL AND GOOD,,,but cause's Soooo MANY real pains to their hearts....

aren't there enough sluts in the world already...

STOP - Spin Tires On Pavement

STOP - Sex the OP

POST, oops sorry dyslexia

STOP- In the name of love, before I sex you up

OH,,,,,im SORRY YOU REALLY FEEL THIS THOUGHT???????

Ok, Ether, you carry on a longterm TALK with a dude.
HE feels like your EVERYTHING..
THEN, ITS the FIRST time for you BOTH to really MEET...and
WOW,,,he looks just like I thought he would maybe even hotter in person??

WOW, SHE looks FANTASTIC,,just like I thought SHE would...

NOW,,,,,,,HELLO.....REAL HERE OK???

YOU "NOW" will WANT to go the NEXT LEG of "THAT'''LOVE,,,,right??

So sometime in "THIS" lifes journey you have sex,,,,

But NOW,,,"uh,O" He sucked in bed. SHE, sucked in bed.
Whichever whoever?? But "NOW" you TWO are NO-MORE!!!

So PLEASE,,,THIS IS LIFE,,,and I AM REAL with what EVERYONE does,,,so,,,,,,,,cut to the damm chase of THIS IS US,,,lets see and then WE KNOW FIRST before rapping up a damm year of "THINKING" about the other one and ,,,,JUST KNOW....?
It sure as hell would SAVE ALOT of long drew out HEART PAINS.
For many here who have been through THIS DRAMA...

I thought sucking in bed was a good thing.

It's been too long for me.

Wow man you trying to say you could not get it up or what.
Sure a lot of anger there.

Ummm Terry?..

Would this be a bad time to ask how your
week out on the road was??

Hey Hiker how ya been,,,I just wanted to OPEN a REAL topic as to WHAT people HERE are MOSTLY about????

A compatable mate,,,,right??

A lover, a friend, another to live beside....RIGHT?

BUT,,,,SO MANY HERE,,,,talk so damm much about DREAMS,,,that it still comes down to if the one they like happens to NOT live up to THEIR expectations in the bedroom,,,,,SEE-YA,,,

And THATS WRONG.....to me anyway,,,then "THAT" person should have just been real and said, WOAHhhhh buddy, before ya start talkin LOVE,,,"WE" need to know WE match in making love together,.....lol SAD,,,but REAL,,and TRUTHFUL......lol

STOP-Spit Twice On Policeman

Sorry Kim,,I just found out that a friend had a BAD time and at a cost that was BEYUND anyone's imaginations,,,,and THATS what I came home and HERE to read...It just makes me want to screem and yell about HOW, WHY, and all for WHAT?
I mean im guessing 4000 miles to be told loved by her,,,,then,,,,to be told OH,,,"NOT", I mean WTF? Thats just wrong I don't care.....

I was wondering how you have been???lol
I am just VENTING at the world as THIS is not my first friend to have this happen nor will it be my last...lol

I believe that you make love with your heart, and not with your body; therefore if you truly love someone, lovemaking is going to be wonderful regardless of which parts work or don't work or sag or fit or whatever. This has been my experience. There is a world of difference between sex and lovemaking.

THANK YOU,,,I agree fully, so if an adult person told YOU they LOVED you,,,,,would YOU not then think that SEX,,,,could be someting to STILL be loved as you would THEM?? Yes,,,Me to,wink,BUT THAT didn't happen,,,,life Grrrrr.lol Im just ranting Hiker,,,I hate to see friends hurt...

this may be TMI - I warn you now, people - but the most spectacular lover I ever had was impotent..that didn't stop us!

Hiker's right.. if everything else is magical, the rest of it will work itself out.

For it to be terrible forever is the fault of BOTH people. I've never dumped someone for being less than desirable in that area. I prefer to wait anyway. If you're all about sex, then you're screwed... figuratively and literally in some instances. For some of you, that's all you're after, and for those people... well, of course you'd wanna know right away.

T you need a ((((Hug))))
Welcome back home friend.

Very true my friend, very true...wonderful thoughts!