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Topic: What is love ?.
Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 05/02/08 05:56 PM
1 Corinthians 13 4 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails; ................................................................ How can you love someone and not be jealous ?. isn't jealousy a part of caring ?. Only in an unhealthy relationship. IMO.

Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Fri 05/02/08 05:59 PM
Let me be patient, let me be kind, make me unselfish, without being blind.. Though I may suffer, Ill envy it not..and endure what comes.... cuz he's all that I got... Tell him...tell him I need him tell him I love him and It'll be alright

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 05/02/08 06:00 PM
How can one define the real love ? . To be REAL with your question here.... YOU will know IT was "REAL" love, after your LIFE BEING SPENT WITH THEM IS OVER FOR ONE OF YOU.... NO ONE CAN KNOW REAL LOVE,,,until THEY, have lived to FEEL IT....and the real lucky ones, WILL NEVER be LOOKING,,,because THEY ALREADY have IT!!!!!!

Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Fri 05/02/08 06:01 PM Edited by Angelface2000 on Fri 05/02/08 06:03 PM
Let me be patient, let me be kind, make me unselfish, without being blind.. Though I may suffer, Ill envy it not..and endure what comes.... cuz he's all that I got... Tell him...tell him I need him tell him I love him and It'll be alright I may have wisdom and knowledge on earth..but if I speak wrong..oooh than what is it worth..see what we now know...is nothing compares to the love that was shown when our lives were spared... I'll never be jealous, and I wont be too proud cuz love is not boastful ..oooh love is not loud tell him I need him..tell him I love him and everything is gonna, is gonna be alright..

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Fri 05/02/08 06:37 PM
1 John 4 And we have known and believed the love that God has to us. God is love; and he that dwells in love dwells in God, and God in him. ................................................................ If God loves us then how can we explain a chaotic world around us with billions of serious problems from wars to natural disasters , from unwanted deaths to crazy divorces ...etc ?. Some schools of thoughts claim that jealousy and possessiveness are due to caring and not wanting something so valuable to be lost or shared . !.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 05/02/08 07:14 PM
1 John 4 And we have known and believed the love that God has to us. God is love; and he that dwells in love dwells in God, and God in him. ................................................................ If God loves us then how can we explain a chaotic world around us with billions of serious problems from wars to natural disasters , from unwanted deaths to crazy divorces ...etc ?. Some schools of thoughts claim that jealousy and possessiveness are due to caring and not wanting something so valuable to be lost or shared . !. God gave us free will. Jealousy and possessiveness are not due to caring. They are part of an unhealthy, dysfunctional relationship.

Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Fri 05/02/08 07:17 PM
1 John 4 And we have known and believed the love that God has to us. God is love; and he that dwells in love dwells in God, and God in him. ................................................................ If God loves us then how can we explain a chaotic world around us with billions of serious problems from wars to natural disasters , from unwanted deaths to crazy divorces ...etc ?. Some schools of thoughts claim that jealousy and possessiveness are due to caring and not wanting something so valuable to be lost or shared . !. To have possession of something is to show or have ownership of..and I belong to no one... I believe that some of us are put through certain trials so that we can truly have compassion for others and can on some level relate to the destruction..and help them to be able to cope with their trials.. You need not ask these questions of myself or others...the answer lies within yourself..you must be open enough to realize the answers on your own..You are your own person, in your unique way..you are you and no one else can tell you who you are my dear..

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 05/02/08 07:20 PM
Love can be a wonderful thing & a bumpy road at the same time.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 05/02/08 07:20 PM
(((Angel))) So wise at a young age.

myssfytz Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 14460	Fri 05/02/08 07:21 PM
1 Corinthians 13 4 Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails; my oldest bro and his first wife had this said in their ceremony yrs ago....then...just 3 yrs ago...i , myself had to say this at my 4th oldest bro/wifes wedding ceremony. i love it .....

jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Fri 05/02/08 07:21 PM
Love is friendship set on fire

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 05/02/08 07:23 PM
Love is friendship set on fire I like how you put that into words.

smokinn1968 Joined Sat 04/05/08 Posts: 185	Fri 05/02/08 07:23 PM
Well when I feel in love, I feel like he could do no wrong! He is my friend, and my lover!

Angelface2000 Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 1930	Fri 05/02/08 07:24 PM
(((Angel))) So wise at a young age. Im living my 93rd life on this earth Winx... (((Winxi)))

jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Fri 05/02/08 07:24 PM
I like how you put that into words. thanks

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Fri 05/02/08 07:25 PM
(((Angel))) So wise at a young age. Im living my 93rd life on this earth Winx... (((Winxi))) I won't tell.

Cinderella75 Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 10049	Fri 05/02/08 07:25 PM
Scientifically speaking the beginnings of love or little Crushes are a temporary chemical imbalance in the brain.

punk0027 Joined Mon 06/25/07 Posts: 240	Fri 05/02/08 07:36 PM
A very nice figament of my imagination it's just my imagination running away with me:}

Purplewingsangel Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 1989	Fri 05/02/08 08:27 PM
i heard men who beat there wife do it because they love em

Purplewingsangel Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 1989	Fri 05/02/08 08:37 PM
love is when you accept him for who he is love is accepting his baggage love is trust love is accepting his past and being able to move forward and letting the hurt wounds heal love is when he gives you those butterflies and everything he does is so cute even when hes farting love is compromise... if he wants to watch sports and you hate sports pretend to care and if you dont then grab him that beer sit on his lap run ur fingers through his hair be playful i bet hell enjoy that more then any game on tv love is listening even when you know hes full of **** love is when you both work as a team and dont compete against eachother love is being there for him when hes sick and cleaning up his throwup i dont know what anyone else thinks but damn thats love love is looking into his eyes and not being able to remember what life was like without him love is when you want to put him before yourself without thinking twice love is when you want to feed him love is when you see all his perfections and accept his imperfections love is being able to say im sorry love love doesnt laugh at his mistakes or at his embarrassing moments love is encouraging love is when you can tease eachother without getting offended love is when you can both be silly