Topic: DeathsTreaty's Fear and Tear Bar - part 2 | |
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It's not too scarey, just be careful of the shadows....
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We started talk more little more then a month ago we spoke on the phone a few times, but not long... a bit hard to figure out a few things about her It's going to be hard, those who have been through things that you have alluded to are generally very reserved. They keep things held & wound up tight. Hard to read, hard to get a response. |
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Ive noticed ^^
Im trying to show who I am without scaring her or saying to much at once ^^ I dont belive Im like those other guys she know of already Im working on it but it does still leave me to think a lot on it... I dont see why someone would do things to anyone.. kind of makes me a bit upset.. but I dont think I can really do anything about that |
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Being cautious, taking small steps, are the right thing to do. Coming on strong will just evoke "fight or flight" with her. She will need time to learn trust, and to be able to trust you.
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And let me add this Brooding...
She needs someone to be nice, pleasent. She has seen enough darkness. |
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Time really is Everything ^^
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And let me add this Brooding... She needs someone to be nice, pleasent. She has seen enough darkness. and she may run from nice, because it feels so un-normal; but with time and space that may change. |
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She is a difficult person inside aswell as fragile
I can see that well even if she wont admit to it This is ust something very new to me.... Do you think maybe Im not a good person? |
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ummmm...that would be a big NO!! i think the fact that you think about this alot and are moving slowly and trying to understand makes you a friend, for starters, that she is lucky to have
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Brooding, as dark and scarey as you try to come across, there are some of us who can see the real you.
And I will say with confidence, you are not a bad person. |
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I think my mother is going to cut the cord again in a sec...
sry if It gets cut... |
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Thanx Tender Bastet and DarkEnlightment ^^
I dont mean to bug you but... What is it that doesnt make me a bad person? |
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Edited by
wyatt1844
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Wed 05/07/08 07:30 PM
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Thanx Tender Bastet and DarkEnlightment ^^ I dont mean to bug you but... What is it that doesnt make me a bad person? Look at your last post... You said thank you, shows consideration - bad people don't care about such pleasentries. "I don't mean to bug you"...(BTW you're not) again, you show consideration... |
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??
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your honesty and truthfulness, your pursuit of figuring yourself out, you're always courteous and thankful from what i have seen. just a few things i have observed.
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Not everyone has those things?
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heck no!! what i'd like to ask you, is what makes you think you are a bad person?
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Edited by
ddn122
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Wed 05/07/08 07:37 PM
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death,
internal examination........"bad" people don't search for answers...within ... hmmm i see i've echoed baset's sentiments.... Thanx Tender Bastet and DarkEnlightment ^^ I dont mean to bug you but... What is it that doesnt make me a bad person? |
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I just do see those things as being nice...
Ive always thought of nice as being something that must be worked at constantly and is not something easy...thats what Ive been shown and taught.. but those things I do just come out |
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Hello GodFather ^^
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