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Topic: How many of you could tolerate or accept
no photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:21 PM
a Lover and/or Friend you could not respect or trust?

And, what would you consider in the assessment?

Just curious.

wiley's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:22 PM
I couldn't. Respect and trust are pretty big issues.

FaithfulOne78's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:22 PM
Edited by FaithfulOne78 on Fri 05/02/08 04:23 PM
If I can't trust you..then there is no hope in me even knowing you..w/o trust..there is nothing! JMOflowerforyou

irad8you's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:23 PM
my ex messed with my best friend, i lost all respect obviously, first time and only time i ever had handcuffs on, i took out a bucket not a can of whoop arse on him.

bastet126's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:27 PM
Edited by bastet126 on Fri 05/02/08 04:27 PM
you got to give trust and respect to get it...no way. grumble

Megan_Smiles's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:30 PM
I take into account if they are good on their word, among other things.

Trust and respect are must haves...I can say I've lost that with someone recently. Doesn't feel good.

1956CLEO's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:30 PM
I could'nt do it....no trust or respect our future is non- existant.

FaithfulOne78's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:31 PM

my ex messed with my best friend, i lost all respect obviously, first time and only time i ever had handcuffs on, i took out a bucket not a can of whoop arse on him.

Damn! Id hate to be any guy that pissed you offohwell

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:32 PM
flowerforyou A lot of gals (and guys) tell little white lies.flowerforyou But if its something serious then I wont tolerate the lies.flowerforyou

nonchalantwendy's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:33 PM
I have a friend/acqauntance that I hang out with weekly, but I have caught her in lies , but We do have alot of fun together and she is very nice to me . As a single woman I need her to go out with cuz all my other friends are married and cannot go out and do things with me......I hate staying home alone.

In this case the good outways the badohwell :wink:

No1sLove's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:33 PM
If I don't respect them then they wouldn't be my lover or my friend.

The trust issue would depend on how bad the offense. If I caught them in a tiny lie, I might give them another chance, but anything bigger is grounds for dismissal.

rush2001's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:34 PM
I'd have to go by their actions.

Etrain's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:35 PM
yes....whatdrinker drinker drinker

BlueskyJ's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:37 PM

a Lover and/or Friend you could not respect or trust?

And, what would you consider in the assessment?

Just curious.

I think trust can be rebuilt if the issue wasn't major like cheating....

but if i didn't respect the person....i'd have nothing to do with them....

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:38 PM
well if i couldn't trust them then there wouldnt be much respect so why bother.

no photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:39 PM

I take into account if they are good on their word, among other things.

Very good point.

no photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:46 PM

I'd have to go by their actions.

Yes.

Snoman1951's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:48 PM
No trust..no respect..NO WAY.

irad8you's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:50 PM


my ex messed with my best friend, i lost all respect obviously, first time and only time i ever had handcuffs on, i took out a bucket not a can of whoop arse on him.

Damn! Id hate to be any guy that pissed you offohwell
im a good guy, i didn't deserve that, i don't get mad period, but i was a ball of hate that night

awolf1010's photo
Fri 05/02/08 04:54 PM
ok let me ask this....what if they lied to you???
In my humble opinion...lying is the same as stealing...only they're taking your faith and trust in them away...

that being said....I STAND FIRM....can not/nor will ever be with someone I dont trust or respect...



a quote my father always said was.... " you lose your money thats nothing,....you lose your health that is something,.....But you lose your character and you've lost it all."

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