Why cant people treat the first meeting to see if you want to see this person a second time? If you don't want to meet why string people along? What joy is in that?

Details!!! We need more details!!!!

Some people have no guts when it comes to telling someone the truth.

Curious minds want to know what happend!

I wouldn't do ya that way, Bob!!

We talked and then talked some more 2/3 weeks IM etc usual stuff

she has had bad experiences so have I so what?

we Decide to take the plunge and meet

I like a baffoon agree to drive over one hour and a half to her patch ro see her asks to exchange tel # just in case.

I gave mine never got hers.Meeting to take place over a cup of coffee, no pressure.
this is last night date 11 am today Standard Pacific Time in lees than one hour from now.

I am checking my email this morning at 9 am just before I shoot of to the date 2 hours before sends an Email one liner sorry don't feel well cancel meet. Fine just explain,one liner? Then a mysterious call er unknown call to my cell silence and then dead

enough detail there?

I know you are ok nicer the people further away that is the bobs theory

all i got to say man, atleast she gave a message, she gave enough decency for that. most women wont,if they dont like you

Sounds like she got scared?

I don't have a tail nor horns and I dont bite

turn around.....there could be a tail there!!!

don't feel bad, a guy did the same thing to me a few months ago. live and learn.

Yep. I generally accept things at face value unless evidence suggests otherwise. This is the time of year alergies kick in. She could actually be being honest with you, or alternatively, she could be chronicly and convieniently ill at times when going out is suggested. You might want to drop her a line and ask how she's doing. Women like to hear it, and they especially like to hear it if it's sincere. Let's turn this around for a minute. If you didn't want to date someone a second time, would you say you were sick to get out of it?

i think she has something to hide that u couldnt get her number..maybe she did u a favor.

yer lucky there robert, count your blessings .

I would wait and see.

these things take time , ' Rome wasn't built in a day'