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me being with very few men.i had only one real adult relationship and if he was quick i demanded a repeat most of the time Ha! Mine could not do a repeat. The 38 seconds I got was it.  what do u want lilith?? A WHOLE minute?? gosh you're picky
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant.  Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. |
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One lady said thirty-eight seconds. Way too slow if you're running the 100 meter dash on bladder overload. Not quick enough if you've become flatulent on an elevator up to the 99th floor. Relative, perhaps. No.... if only one person is crossing the finish line and there is no regard for the partner, there is nothing relative about that. I said 38 seconds. And I gave him three chances to improve or at least respond to my queries. I'm sorry, but that is too quick for sex. It's ridiculous. Jill~ Yes, at least a minute. I'd prefer 10! But I'll setlle for some communication and reciprocity, in any time over a minute. |
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant. Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. sex can be bad. I promise
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant. Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. 
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant. Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. sex can be bad. I promise I've never been on the recieving end. :) From my side of the plate things have always gone smoothly. *cough* *cough* |
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant. Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. sex can be bad. I promise I've never been on the recieving end. :) From my side of the plate things have always gone smoothly. *cough* *cough* lucky you, wish I could say that
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If I care about the person... it's never bad.
If I don't... I get dressed and leave, and forget names, phone numbers and addresses. |
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant. Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. I understand what you mean. What if the person could change their ways? A second chance isn't too much IMO. If you walk without saying anything that person will never improve. |
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant. Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. I understand what you mean. What if the person could change their ways? A second chance isn't too much IMO. If you walk without saying anything that person will never improve. don't assume I wouldn't say anything
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I understand what you mean. What if the person could change their ways? A second chance isn't too much IMO. If you walk without saying anything that person will never improve. Yes.... but here, in my case, I gave him two more chances and I did say something. Very tactfully, each time. |
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are intimate with someone and its bad or too quick.do you try again or give up? This would never happen to me so the question is irrelevant. Seriously I'm trying to think of how sex can be bad. Hmmm, are we talking about a different type of intimacy? Emotionally I'd try again with the person. We each have faults if we can not deal with them then we are not much of a person ourselves, IMO. sex can be bad. I promise I've never been on the recieving end. :) From my side of the plate things have always gone smoothly. *cough* *cough* lucky you, wish I could say that There is always the Butterfly! Push the goof off of you and show him what it really means to pleasure a woman. He will be the one begging for more believe me and at that point you begin negotiations.
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I understand what you mean. What if the person could change their ways? A second chance isn't too much IMO. If you walk without saying anything that person will never improve. Yes.... but here, in my case, I gave him two more chances and I did say something. Very tactfully, each time.
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me being with very few men.i had only one real adult relationship and if he was quick i demanded a repeat most of the time Ha! Mine could not do a repeat. The 38 seconds I got was it. whatcha complaining for?
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but was it 38 seconds of pure bliss? Oh Rob.... it was like the dreams of high school. Still mostly dressed, awkward "is it in there yet?" thoughts and then the, "Oh. It is" thoughts, as suddenly he was moaning and screaming. I'm thinking... "wait I missed it". Bliss, nope. It was just sad, sorry and pathetic. I feel almost guilty sharing how bad it was. |
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but was it 38 seconds of pure bliss? Oh Rob.... it was like the dreams of high school. Still mostly dressed, awkward "is it in there yet?" thoughts and then the, "Oh. It is" thoughts, as suddenly he was moaning and screaming. I'm thinking... "wait I missed it". Bliss, nope. It was just sad, sorry and pathetic. I feel almost guilty sharing how bad it was. Oh you told me about THAT guy... how funny...
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Edited by
Single_Rob
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but was it 38 seconds of pure bliss? Oh Rob.... it was like the dreams of high school. Still mostly dressed, awkward "is it in there yet?" thoughts and then the, "Oh. It is" thoughts, as suddenly he was moaning and screaming. I'm thinking... "wait I missed it". Bliss, nope. It was just sad, sorry and pathetic. I feel almost guilty sharing how bad it was.
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Oh you told me about THAT guy... how funny... Yeah... he was so nice too. In other ways. Nice like doormat nice. As in not nice. But yet he was... just not for me. Once I realized I was dating him for all the wrong reasons, I ended it. Intimacy... I need that. I want a guy who will tune into me and me into him, and we communicate and gain pleasure ourselves by pleasuring the other. That is a good deal all the way around. Is that so much to ask for? |
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Ha! Mine could not do a repeat. The 38 seconds I got was it. 38 seconds? Man! I had the opposite problem one time. After the fourth O she was asking if I was ready. I responded with: "I was waiting for you to finish." Lickily...oops I mean luckily she gave me a second chance.
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the first time I had sex I didnt even get off. I swear the condom haid raised white letters with "good year" spelled out.It was thick as an innertube. I was so friggen nervous ya, they tend to be pretty thick if you don't stretch them.... **cough cough** |
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