Ok, need some advice...opinions...whatever. In the middle of a thoughtful, emotional conversation, a man says "I love you". Not 5 minutes later, he says he's not sure he really knows what love is. He promised he would never say those words if he didn't truly mean them (his promises are like gold). So...does he mean it? It wasn't a situation where he would feel obligated to say it...so what does that mean? What's your take on it?

I think he wanted you to show him what love is....you know....

Go with your gut feeling on this one...you know him better than any of us.

ask him to think about his words, make sure he knows you wont be offended if he takes it back...you want him to MEAN it, right?

you've heard of a brain fart..he had a heart fart

i thought i had an opinion but when i started typin it didnt make any since to me.. so i dont think i have anything.. but he might think he loves you and wanted you to know but he's still not really sure what it is yet

Most definitely! That's why I made him promise...I've been thinking on that one for a couple weeks now.

LOL

Maybe he scared himself. It doesn't mean that he doesn't feel it for you. Let him calm down about it. Don't get nervous. Just let him settle with it tii he wrap's his head around it.

That honestly makes more sense than you probably realize!

If he does not know what Luv is then this makes his entire statement null & void.Luv is a very powerful word & emmotion so I'm thinking he better learn real quick what it is & how it is felt,etc.Follow ur heart on this & determine if he really is capable of true Luv.(jmo)

well ya know what they say .. if you are confusing yourself. someone else probably knows exactly what your saying

or maybe i'm the first to say it..

my qestion is whats do love got to do with any thing...?if two people connect and have a very good chance on sharing something real..i hear people making promisses all the time that they know that they cannt keep...why not just be real.....why not lay it all on the line?you know choose to stand or fall.......the reason is we all get defeated -mis-lead by our hearts, lead by emotions,driven by hope...........once the blind folders are on ,and the fear of being hurt kicks in........ how do you trust....anyone?i guess you need to remeber " anything that dont kill you will make you stronger".love do exist,just not always where we are looking.....SIT AND WAY OUT THE PRO VS THE CONS....YOU CAN ANSWER THIS QUESTION YOUR SELF......BUT REMEMBER THE TRUTH HURTS