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Topic: Should I...
ShyKBear's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:54 PM
Tell him I love him?

We've been dating for 4 months now; I can't see myself living without him in my life....he always asks what I'm thinking but I fear that if I tell him I will lose him, and that would just break my heart. brokenheart

Tankk's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:55 PM
Tell him.

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Sun 04/27/08 07:55 PM
Be careful...he may bolt. devil

ladyblack67's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:58 PM
tell him. just be careful! or he may go running the other way!

and make sure you ARE in love with him!!

Cambolaya65's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:58 PM
its best to ignore your feelings entirely.......what??huh

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:58 PM
I think you better tell him. If you wait maybe, you will lose him.

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Sun 04/27/08 07:58 PM

Be careful...he may bolt. devil
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floh's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:58 PM
if he does have a problem with you telling him...do you think he is really the right one?

JadedHeart's photo
Sun 04/27/08 07:59 PM
You should tell him, but you'll know when the right time is. I wouldn't use it as a conversation starter! :wink: Maybe he's been feeling the same and has been afraid to tell you.

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Sun 04/27/08 08:00 PM
Be sure to kinda mumble when you say it....If he gets a crazy look on his face....just make out like you said "a dove flew".

drinker

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Sun 04/27/08 08:00 PM
Those three words are to be used carefully, even after you say them the first time. Maybe even especialy after the first time.
You need to know he wants to hear them.flowerforyou

Single_Rob's photo
Sun 04/27/08 08:01 PM
You got to air it out, let it flow

JadedHeart's photo
Sun 04/27/08 08:05 PM

Those three words are to be used carefully, even after you say them the first time. Maybe even especialy after the first time.
You need to know he wants to hear them.flowerforyou


And make sure, if he says "I love you too" that he truly means it and isn't just saying it because you did. It's always nice to know someone loves you, but once I actually had someone tell me thank you. I'm glad they didn't say it back if they didn't feel it, but the "thank you" response was a little awkward. huh

ShyKBear's photo
Sun 04/27/08 08:07 PM


Those three words are to be used carefully, even after you say them the first time. Maybe even especialy after the first time.
You need to know he wants to hear them.flowerforyou


And make sure, if he says "I love you too" that he truly means it and isn't just saying it because you did. It's always nice to know someone loves you, but once I actually had someone tell me thank you. I'm glad they didn't say it back if they didn't feel it, but the "thank you" response was a little awkward. huh


I have had someone say that to me as well...really very awkward moment! huh huh

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Mon 04/28/08 09:27 AM
Looks like he might be wondering if you do. :smile:

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Mon 04/28/08 09:31 AM



Those three words are to be used carefully, even after you say them the first time. Maybe even especialy after the first time.
You need to know he wants to hear them.flowerforyou


And make sure, if he says "I love you too" that he truly means it and isn't just saying it because you did. It's always nice to know someone loves you, but once I actually had someone tell me thank you. I'm glad they didn't say it back if they didn't feel it, but the "thank you" response was a little awkward. huh


I have had someone say that to me as well...really very awkward moment! huh huh


I would wait until he says it to you. There are a lot of guys (myself included) that get freaked out with those words.

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Mon 04/28/08 09:40 AM
If I had a man that actually cared what I was thinking...I think I'd feel safe enough to tell him. laugh

lilith401's photo
Mon 04/28/08 09:40 AM
We can't tell you what is in your heart. If you know, then you need to share it with him, not us.

Good luck in whatever you decide. flowerforyou

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Mon 04/28/08 09:45 AM
You probably need to find out first how he feels about you before you say you love him. You don't want to take the chance of saying those words and scare him away. JMO.

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Mon 04/28/08 09:46 AM
Let him tell you first!!!bigsmile drinker

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