why is that its much harder for a women to let go of there hurt when u see women all the time searching for a long tearm relationships but when it boils down to it there not ready to commit in one or get to know some one to see where it go's.


another word's for exsample if a male or female contacts you say there interested and you talk for months or weeks or what ever the case maybe and then it becaomes a fear when the person starts to have there hurt get in the way of things how would they proceed in a heathy relationship if they dont let go of there past.

I have seen this many times befor on plentyoffish and other dating sites where people post in there profiles there seeking long tearm but is not capable in handling long tearm or they say i been hurt a lot im not ready if thats how they feel then why dont they change there profile to just friends or date.

and give them selfs time to heal because steping in to a new relationship is a new ball of wax and it takes time to have to build it from the foundation up but if theres past that wont let go then it puts a dent like a speed bunp in that new relationship and it becomes messy.

thats a question i have heard ask seval times over from other friends i know.

granted i was hurt cheated on the whole nine yards and it took 3 years to set my life strait and i learn from letting go of that past i was free to move on to began a new life for my selfit took time thats why i put in my profile seeking long tearm because im ready for it.


But every one is differnt and i respect that.but i think from my own espearence that holding on to the past with anger,stress,fear,ect dose not help prodgress my life
so i took the time and realy worked hard to face my fears to let go of it and move on i know that life is to short i just hope this makes sense to any one .

I don't think it's women it's some men and some women... everyone handles hurt/trust/betrayal differently...

it is very hard. especially when you have reached a point in your life where you are ready for a ltr and the person you like is obviously not.....i say we should all become hermits.

the x is always better, no one can ever love them like the x, all women know this to be true, the can't let go of the x because the x is one fine piece of man meat. the x is the greatest lover they have ever known, or ever will. just remember the x came before you, but after her..ba-zing!

-X

the x is so modest too.

That will get you nowhere.

dont pick on me.

the x always made her laugh

you got me there.

I love the X to death even though he's but a youngin.. Ok like a little brother but still

((((winnie)))) where ya been girl?

ive been hiding. how are you??? and x isnt THAT young. lol only a few years younger than me. hmmmmm, that gives me dirty thoughts.

not picking on you just saying.

see every woman loves the x, thank you princess

dreams and thoughts of the x are comman, the x is hard to let go of.

i hear you man. same thing happen to me on this website...;

the x is a fun toy. the x is non refundable. the x does not = y. my name starts with w so i come before the x.

I have this on my profile. Only if people would


There is only one thing I would have to say to who ever reads this, is I hope you have an open mind to what I'm about to say. If you just came to this site and you plan on meeting someone more then friends. I would hope your not on here to over come your own emotion from a past relationship. The only thing you going to end up doing is hurting someone or yourself if you haven't heald..... All I would ever ask anyone that talks with me, is just be real be yourself and have a good time on here. Because if you honest with yourself and who you are and what you might be looking for, you just might find it :)

like i said the x comes befor the man, but after the woman-ba-zing!

X, do you have any pickles?