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Topic: Do you?
LadyOfMagic's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:55 PM
I'm a grudge holder..I still hate my cousin for evil comments she made when I was 15 and I'm 29 now.laugh

62easygoing's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:55 PM
forgive easy, and forgive often;(why!) because I want to be forgiven when i am in the wrong.glasses glasses

seahawks's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:56 PM

Life is way to short to hold a grudge and I have better places to focus my energy.
nice dog bro.!!!drinker drinker

Thomas27's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:56 PM

Do you forgive easily or hold grudges?huh Do you let things go easily or do you take awhile to forgive?huh bigsmile

"Forgive me of my trespasses as I forgive those who trespass against me"

I forgive, most of time easily. But, however I'm not a complete sucker and continue to let those things keep happening over and over. Holding grudges is completely unhealthy and commonly related to a Spiritual deficiency. It's tough to accept some people the way they are. The more I do so (accept people the way they are), consequently the less grudges I hold or have. Which inevitably makes it easier to forgive.

Lily0923's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:56 PM


I hold a grudge to the bitter end...or until they apologise for their trespasses....Which ever comes first...laugh laugh


I'm with Lil here in a lot of ways but usually I forget I'm mad and not b/c I want to but b/c I'm that brain dead sometimes...


My friends calls me "the girl from 50 first dates" he can't remember her name.... but I'm the one with the bad memory....laugh

No1sLove's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:57 PM
I'll only hold a grudge if the offense is pretty severe, otherwise not so much.

kayak69's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:57 PM


Life is way to short to hold a grudge and I have better places to focus my energy.
nice dog bro.!!!drinker drinker


Thanks, thats my boy, Bubba

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Fri 04/25/08 05:58 PM


Do you forgive easily or hold grudges?huh Do you let things go easily or do you take awhile to forgive?huh bigsmile

"Forgive me of my trespasses as I forgive those who trespass against me"

I forgive, most of time easily. But, however I'm not a complete sucker and continue to let those things keep happening over and over. Holding grudges is completely unhealthy and commonly related to a Spiritual deficiency. It's tough to accept some people the way they are. The more I do so (accept people the way they are), consequently the less grudges I hold or have. Which inevitably makes it easier to forgive.
You do have a point thereflowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Fri 04/25/08 05:59 PM



Life is way to short to hold a grudge and I have better places to focus my energy.
nice dog bro.!!!drinker drinker


Thanks, thats my boy, Bubba
cheers mate.!drinker

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Fri 04/25/08 05:59 PM
Hi Sea..how have u been??flowerforyou

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Fri 04/25/08 05:59 PM
Only a couple of them...

Redsoxfan1's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:00 PM



Life is way to short to hold a grudge and I have better places to focus my energy.
nice dog bro.!!!drinker drinker


Thanks, thats my boy, Bubba
Hello, hon, how are ya?blushing

seahawks's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:00 PM

Hi Sea..how have u been??flowerforyou
hiya hunns im fine, howzzya doin.!!flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:01 PM

Do you forgive easily or hold grudges?huh Do you let things go easily or do you take awhile to forgive?huh bigsmile

it depends, some things take me a little longer then others but as time goes on ill forgive.

Native_Grl39's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:01 PM

Do you forgive easily or hold grudges?huh Do you let things go easily or do you take awhile to forgive?huh bigsmile


I take awhile to forgive...BUT depending on the situation...don't allow the person to be part of my life again...I forgive for me...it doesn't mean that I forget what the person is capable of...That is my way of seperating the wheat from the chaff and keeping crap out of my life!!!!!!!!!

flowerforyou drinker flowerforyou



kayak69's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:02 PM
Tired, had a loooong day, but a good one.

Redsoxfan1's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:02 PM

Tired, had a loooong day, but a good one.
U want me to call u at 8 30, correct?:tongue:

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/25/08 06:03 PM
I tend to get really mad really quickly and then get over it just as quickly. I do apologize when I am wrong.

I don't want to hold grudges because it takes too much energy but if someone wrongs me I keep a wary distance in the future.No grudge, just careful not to let them do it again.

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Fri 04/25/08 06:03 PM


Hi Sea..how have u been??flowerforyou
hiya hunns im fine, howzzya doin.!!flowerforyou
Good..same as always..flowerforyou

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Fri 04/25/08 06:05 PM
smokin glasses

depends----

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