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Being forgiving has hurt me in so many different ways.
Is it something that is learned? or does it come natural. |
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you have to look deep inside yourself do you want the anger to live inside you just my thoughts
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 I really think it is alittle of both,,,, Once you start it is e-z to get into a rut and find that it is better just to let it go and not fight about it???? does this make any since??
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I think it comes natural like your personality. I know what you mean. I have a hard time staying mad at people and so some take that as a sign of weakness and think I can be walked on like a door mat. I'm really nice and forgiving, but I have my lines and once you cross them look out the volcano has exploded. Every once in a while I think some people just need to be put in there place no matter how much it might hurt you to do it.
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it's great wisdom that you are being given....you will find out why you went through it when someone goes through something similar, and you will relate to them, when nobody else can.
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((DARKOWL))
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((DARKOWL)) fun!!! good to see you!!! 
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I had to learn it.......because the hate was literally killing me!!! The only way I found peace was forgiveness.....and it took a very long time
 Its almost selfish to forgive because it makes you feel better...
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you have to look deep inside yourself do you want the anger to live inside you just my thoughts See thats my point. I have no anger inside of me, but I feel its a curse because I live with frustration because others should forgive and can't. |
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I had to learn it.......because the hate was literally killing me!!! The only way I found peace was forgiveness.....and it took a very long time Its almost selfish to forgive because it makes you feel better... |
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I have a hard time being too nice. Does anyone else have this problem and if so, how do you get meaner in a nice way???lol
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I had to learn it.......because the hate was literally killing me!!! The only way I found peace was forgiveness.....and it took a very long time Its almost selfish to forgive because it makes you feel better... 
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you have to look deep inside yourself do you want the anger to live inside you just my thoughts See thats my point. I have no anger inside of me, but I feel its a curse because I live with frustration because others should forgive and can't. |
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Freud? Oh hell Gypsy looks like I logged on just in time lol. I missed u guys lol. Even Peccy and his crazy questions!
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I had to learn it.......because the hate was literally killing me!!! The only way I found peace was forgiveness.....and it took a very long time Its almost selfish to forgive because it makes you feel better... |
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i just get on with it, i have major reasons to hate some people, but i cant be bothered wasting my life thinking about them or what they did..one or two i could forgive..the others no..but im not going to dwell on it either
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you have to look deep inside yourself do you want the anger to live inside you just my thoughts See thats my point. I have no anger inside of me, but I feel its a curse because I live with frustration because others should forgive and can't. |
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I had to learn it.......because the hate was literally killing me!!! The only way I found peace was forgiveness.....and it took a very long time Its almost selfish to forgive because it makes you feel better...
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I had to learn it.......because the hate was literally killing me!!! The only way I found peace was forgiveness.....and it took a very long time Its almost selfish to forgive because it makes you feel better... |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Fri 04/25/08 12:25 AM
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you don't change your way, because it's your strength to be nice, that gives you your path...you will understand that the world needs people that can grow from these pains, and put them behind, but understand why, for every situation is different, and more complicated, ...we grow.....
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