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sloehand Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 180	Thu 04/24/08 06:13 PM
i am 54 years , proud of it . i have dated women mostly 50 to 65 . even when i was 18 , i dated a 29 year old .i have a lot more fun ! the reason i dont post a photo too many are hung up on looks . for you race fans , i am somewhere between mark martin and matt kenseth in looks dept

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 04/24/08 06:28 PM
i am 54 years , proud of it . i have dated women mostly 50 to 65 . even when i was 18 , i dated a 29 year old .i have a lot more fun ! the reason i dont post a photo too many are hung up on looks . for you race fans , i am somewhere between mark martin and matt kenseth in looks dept I have sent messages to several people on here because I liked what they said in a forum; only to realize afterward that they had no photo and I hadn't noticed. I do notice if it is a blue box, but if they have pictures of things I tend not to notice if there is no photo of them. So I guess we are not all hung up on looks. I am hung up on wit.

CATBW56 Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 7224	Thu 04/24/08 06:30 PM
I think distance is the greatest obstacle to all dating sites. In your own area you are well known & that makes finding new people hard. I feel VERY sure there are lots of nice ladies & men out there, problem is getting them in the same town; let alone getting them to meet. I have to agree with you there Sage. Distance does play into it.

greer51 Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 2419	Fri 04/25/08 08:55 AM
It's late and I'm probably the only one here, so I'll talk to myself. I wondered why there were so few men here in this age group.......but I didn't wonder long. Ever notice how many men 50 and over advertise for women at least 10 yrs or more younger than they are? And a lot of them look 10 yrs older than they are! When I see that, I ignore them if they do contact me. And then there's the guys who are young enough to be my son, saying age doesn't matter. Does to me! I enjoy having men for friends. Wish there were more. Probably too busy chasing after those young girls.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Fri 04/25/08 02:56 PM
Old or young, can I chase them both. What is the catch limit? Is there a size limit? What are the rules?

1stfizz Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 35	Fri 04/25/08 03:10 PM
Distance does seem to be a problem, not so much because nearby knows you, but the profile info "seems" different maybe? Just today 2 seemingly nice men, but one is age difference and the other was distance...Oh well, guess we'll all get there one day

moman65672 Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 348	Fri 04/25/08 04:29 PM
Distance does seem to be a problem, not so much because nearby knows you, but the profile info "seems" different maybe? Just today 2 seemingly nice men, but one is age difference and the other was distance...Oh well, guess we'll all get there one day Distance isnt a problem if your willing to take the time and meet half way.This weekend Im traveling 710 miles to meet someone I have been talking to on the phone for the last week. nothing can replace a real life meeting.Its worth the travel distance if your looking for the last love of your life.

Abracadabra Joined Thu 04/12/07 Posts: 17851	Fri 04/25/08 05:21 PM
Actually I wouldn't have a problem traveling a large distance if I met someone on the Internet that I was hitting it off with really well. If that ever happens I'd be willing to drive pretty far. I've driven hundreds (even thousands) of miles to meet women in the past, and I even knew before hand that we weren't going to be all that compatible. I'm still waiting for the woman who lights my fire. If I find her, then distance, age, or anything else won't be a deterent. Thus far, I just haven't found her. I can't very well hit the road when I haven't yet found my destiny.

peppermint10 Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 147	Fri 04/25/08 05:41 PM
Distance does seem to be a problem, not so much because nearby knows you, but the profile info "seems" different maybe? Just today 2 seemingly nice men, but one is age difference and the other was distance...Oh well, guess we'll all get there one day Distance isnt a problem if your willing to take the time and meet half way.This weekend Im traveling 710 miles to meet someone I have been talking to on the phone for the last week. nothing can replace a real life meeting.Its worth the travel distance if your looking for the last love of your life. moman, you're my new hero. I, too, have traveled to meet someone a few times. One almost worked out, but if you dont' try, you might be passing up 'the one'. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!

peppermint10 Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 147	Fri 04/25/08 05:45 PM
i am 54 years , proud of it . i have dated women mostly 50 to 65 . even when i was 18 , i dated a 29 year old .i have a lot more fun ! the reason i dont post a photo too many are hung up on looks . for you race fans , i am somewhere between mark martin and matt kenseth in looks dept sloehand, I agree, somewhat, with what you say about posting a photo. One of the things I like most about the internet is you can get to know someone without getting hung up on looks. Unfortunately, there are many people who are looking for Barbies and Kens. As for being a race fan, I like to follow the M&M car for obvious reasons!

musichic Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 8937	Fri 04/25/08 05:59 PM
Distance is a huge problem. Seems the guys I meet locally aren't who they say they are. Why is it that the good guys are so far away. I'll just have to learn to fly a plane or buy stock in an airline. or hit the lottery or retire early oh well, it's nice to dream

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sun 04/27/08 08:18 AM
Still looking for those rules, where do I google?

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sun 04/27/08 09:36 AM
this is kinda hard to reply to,,,,,,,,th women that are my age live on th other side of th usa or another country,,,as far as th locals,,,well like one lady said,,,,,there not what they clame to be,,,,,,,,,,,,on here an even in real life i tend to get along with th younger group,,,,,,,,not looking for arm candy just would like to find some one closer to my own age that have close to th same intrest

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 09:43 AM
I'm old(er) but still trying to be arm candy!!

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sun 04/27/08 09:46 AM
Tulsa, bet my life on the FACT, you will ALWAYS be arm candy. DAMN SWEET too.

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Sun 04/27/08 09:50 AM
Tulsa, bet my life on the FACT, you will ALWAYS be arm candy. DAMN SWEET too. Awwww... shucks!! Thanks Sage!

Snoman1951 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 5731	Sun 04/27/08 09:57 AM
I'm old(er) but still trying to be arm candy!! Yummm..candy..

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Sun 04/27/08 09:58 AM
I hope that candy lasts ALONG time, when licked.

cherokeeangel53 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 76	Sun 04/27/08 11:04 AM
Sage will never know how many licks it takes to get to the middle. He will bite first.

angelinboots Joined Sun 03/02/08 Posts: 90	Sun 04/27/08 12:03 PM
Here we go, lumping all older men together. BS, some guys want arm candy, sure why not. I was married to a lady 9 yrs older then I, have dated ladies older than that. Age is not a factor for me, personality & how a lady presents herself, are my guidlines. Maybe there is something about how you treat the men contacting you. Why not look for friends frst & then see where it goes. That is what I do here. Didn't mean to irritate you, oldsage. I asked if anyone noticed "how many"...and there are. I wasn't lumping EVERY man into that category. As for me, I was married to a man who was eight years younger, but he couldn't keep up with me. I agree it's what's inside that counts most. What I was speaking of are the men who do advertise for only women up to a certain age, only looking for a body. And I agree some women are like that, too. But my topic was about a particular group.