Dear Debbie,
Last weekend I was emailing with someone that suddenly got jeolous over my posts. She deleted me as a friend and quit writting. I flirt to some extent, but I feel its in good fun. Do you think that if someone is begining to get close via email that harmless flirts in the forums should stop?

No I do not......But then again it takes a very strong woman to be ok with it.......And trust me not a whole lot of em. I think if she met you that way then she needs to get over it. But if it is something that you both agree to and then you keep flirting big fat no no.

Dear Boss Lady

Why does my Favorite Guy Live so far away from me

Because the matchmaker doesn't think distance should be a factor with true love.....giggle. And it won't with you.......you wait and see...

I know the wait is crazy....but going to be worth it.
hehehe nope it won't and i'm waiting

Dear Not1'sLove

This is quite simple......you need to either find a man that also loves to travel and that the company will allow you to take on business trips.....and 16 years is a lot for a company to invest in an employee...so good shot there.....

I to had a job that I received my degree on the job so to speak....a very rare thing indeed.....so I would say if you wake up happy to go to work.....Don't give it up.


And again there is also no reason you can't stay with the job, retire early and then find your soulmate.....And if you can't wait that long...then go with the first one in finding a man that also travels......Also you have the option of also coming to the matchmaking Game #70 and letting me maybe find "the one"

I already have someone in mind.....and he travels alot also........never say never....there is always a solution to the problem when the solution becomes more then the problem itself. Hope this helps.

Thanks Debbie, but I've dated someone who travels also and saw them 2-3 days out of a month.

Every situation is different though..so you never know. It would be a huge loss to leave my job. Time is only a factor because I would like a family and aint getting any younger.

I will take full advantage of your matchmaking skills as soon as I come out of my non-dating status. I'm going it alone and getting my priorities in order for now. Besides, I've almost always been in a relationship and am enjoying uncontested rights to the remote control for the first time ever.

oh yeah yeah doing happy dance for the next 3 weeks

That is a good point about the remote.....we have his and hers.... The hardest part is the want a family......that is a whole other factor.......I did quit the corporate world to raise a family and then started some businesses so that I could be with them......Best of luck to you sweets and look forward to more chats with ya....and of course the matchmaking game....

Doing that HAPPY DANCE


Right along with ya K......giggle

Dear Debby,

Why do women like to say that they love my personality and it is what they are looking for, but I am to nice and sweet. What kind of cop out is that. Just curious. fyi, it has happen many times not just once.

Yeah, the family thing will happen if it's meant to...not a reason to enter a relationship for me though. Thanks for your input...good to hear a different view point. You're very good at this.

And you know who I will be calling that day too

so theres an issue where i work. I was suppost to close tonight, and another girl comes up to me and goes, will you leave at ten and let me close cuz Rachel(the manger) doesnt want to close with you.

Me not wanting to cause an issue at 9 at night. say fine whatever. And the whole thing made me feel uncofortable. and according to our handbook, harrassment is anything that is said or done that makes another feel uncofortable, and not want to work that job anymore. should i push it to the highest level, or let it go. it did make me feel verrry uncomfortable and i really dont want to work with either girl any more if i even want to stay there.

Brenda Darling: Hi sweets

This is a tough one....my first instinct is that you need to do your job....and if your supposed to close and they have a problem with that for any reason....then you need to let it be known.....what if you say ok...and something goes wrong...those bosses are going to blame you and won't care what excuse you have.....right.......But also if you have an issue with these girls and can't work with either.....then this to needs to be addressed....and who has senority of the three of you.