Why does it seem like when you find someone you really like and they seem to like you back they pull away or loose intrest why play those kind of games if your looking for true love? It suck when you dont know whats next and then your always wondering whats wrong and why people cant just tell the truth if there not interested where not kids anymore! And what happend to looking at whats on the inside not what a person looks like on the outside why does looks really matter?

looks matter to a point but i'd much rather be with someone i can trust and have a connection with.

i realy dont know i wish i knew, seems like women do it to me alot.

a lot of people use other people as confidence boosters, and you become a "trial run" so to speak.. most of us have been victims of this without realizing it. basically to see how far one can go up the "hot" ladder, until they get dumped.

If you need help call the F.B.I.

i don't mind if they stop emailing. it is better if they stop soon other wise they just wast my time

OMG..Somebody that feels like I do

True love is not to be sought over the internet...hell true love is damn near extinct...

Often, too much is expected and hoped for in every relationship. How many of a person's relationships have matured into absolute love? The answer is very few. I personally would not try to count the number of relationships I have had, but very few lasted. I do not blame anyone for the ones that did not succeed to my early expectations and hopes. The reasons we back away are as myriad as there are ppl in the world. It is not a game. It is simply life. I am certain that the ppl who complain about the "gamers" can be considered the same by many of the ppl they have taken baby steps in relationships with, only to back out for reasons that are their own, and probably not understood by the other individual in the scene.

Absolutely true!

I actually did not trust my instincts and a friend of mine did her profile and asked a guy I went out with once if he met anyone off this site and he said one.................which of course was me and said she was unattractive but was still calling me. When I confronted him he would not come clean and now ignores me. I feel bad for tricking him but atleast I know he wants to play the field although he couldn't stop telling me how beautiful/special I was. So ladies...trust your gut.

It could be they have no self awareness and do not even know they are doing it. Perhaps they have issues with intimacy or commitment. Maybe they are afraid to let anyone get really close to them; to know them well; to LOVE them. It is a shame - but some people are damaged and will be hard pressed to ever be whole again.