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debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 12:12 PM
good old nhs! well they do give you 3 free, i just cant believe that after having 3 abortions you would have unprotected sex again

vincenza Joined Thu 01/17/08 Posts: 25	Tue 04/22/08 12:16 PM
3 is this girl crazy!i have a friend like this once is a mistake twice is stupidity and the third time is there even an answer

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 12:21 PM
3 is this girl crazy!i have a friend like this once is a mistake twice is stupidity and the third time is there even an answer AND she thought she was pregnant again to. so that would have been 4 abortions needed I HAD to buy the pregnancy test for her, because all her money went on fags, nothing for her daughter, just herself.

jenleah32 Joined Sat 09/22/07 Posts: 4577	Tue 04/22/08 12:23 PM
It depends on the situation...If she was raped and ended up pregnant then yes but if she got pregnant on her own accord then NO...It was he stupidity not mine!!

vincenza Joined Thu 01/17/08 Posts: 25	Tue 04/22/08 12:25 PM
she has kids?this girl needs a kick up the !i feel theres no need to get pregnant in this day and age wise up girls only us that suffers in the end

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 12:29 PM
she has kids?this girl needs a kick up the !i feel theres no need to get pregnant in this day and age wise up girls only us that suffers in the end she had 3 abortions on the nhs, after that you have to pay, thats why she had her daughter, and after her daughter was born she thought she was pregnant again. so shes killed 2 babies, bought one up with no love, and luckily the 4th time she didnt get pregnant

vincenza Joined Thu 01/17/08 Posts: 25	Tue 04/22/08 12:31 PM
well you cant help someone that wont help them selves

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 12:33 PM
well you cant help someone that wont help them selves yes, goodpoint

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 04/22/08 12:36 PM
3 is this girl crazy!i have a friend like this once is a mistake twice is stupidity and the third time is there even an answer AND she thought she was pregnant again to. so that would have been 4 abortions needed I HAD to buy the pregnancy test for her, because all her money went on fags, nothing for her daughter, just herself. debbie no offense but a person like that would NOT be my friend. Abortions are NOT a form of birth control... If she doesn't want to have children she needs to prevent herself from getting pregnant

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 12:52 PM
3 is this girl crazy!i have a friend like this once is a mistake twice is stupidity and the third time is there even an answer AND she thought she was pregnant again to. so that would have been 4 abortions needed I HAD to buy the pregnancy test for her, because all her money went on fags, nothing for her daughter, just herself. debbie no offense but a person like that would NOT be my friend. Abortions are NOT a form of birth control... If she doesn't want to have children she needs to prevent herself from getting pregnant jill im not her friend, i have stated that. i did everthing in my power for her little girl, and i will not take any critism towards me, things would have turned out worse if i hadnt of been there all the time. i practically bought her up. like she was my own.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 04/22/08 12:56 PM
3 is this girl crazy!i have a friend like this once is a mistake twice is stupidity and the third time is there even an answer AND she thought she was pregnant again to. so that would have been 4 abortions needed I HAD to buy the pregnancy test for her, because all her money went on fags, nothing for her daughter, just herself. debbie no offense but a person like that would NOT be my friend. Abortions are NOT a form of birth control... If she doesn't want to have children she needs to prevent herself from getting pregnant jill im not her friend, i have stated that. i did everthing in my power for her little girl, and i will not take any critism towards me, things would have turned out worse if i hadnt of been there all the time. i practically bought her up. like she was my own. Debbie... I am in no way critizing you

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 01:13 PM
3 is this girl crazy!i have a friend like this once is a mistake twice is stupidity and the third time is there even an answer AND she thought she was pregnant again to. so that would have been 4 abortions needed I HAD to buy the pregnancy test for her, because all her money went on fags, nothing for her daughter, just herself. debbie no offense but a person like that would NOT be my friend. Abortions are NOT a form of birth control... If she doesn't want to have children she needs to prevent herself from getting pregnant jill im not her friend, i have stated that. i did everthing in my power for her little girl, and i will not take any critism towards me, things would have turned out worse if i hadnt of been there all the time. i practically bought her up. like she was my own. Debbie... I am in no way critizing you sorry. but i stuck around long enough to make sure she was safe, and now she can defend herself or seek help herself, watching this on a daily basis for years screwed my head up.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 04/22/08 01:16 PM
No, but I would adopt her child in a heat beat.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 01:17 PM
No, but I would adopt her child in a heat beat. no to what??

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 04/22/08 01:19 PM
all you can do is control your own actions and take responsibility for them. If giving money for it is something you don't agree with then you have that right. but you can't control others actions. all you can do is what you feel is the right thing. is this thread and the other thread about the same person?

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 01:20 PM
all you can do is control your own actions and take responsibility for them. If giving money for it is something you don't agree with then you have that right. but you can't control others actions. all you can do is what you feel is the right thing. is this thread and the other thread about the same person? yes

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Tue 04/22/08 01:27 PM Edited by No1sLove on Tue 04/22/08 01:33 PM
No, but I would adopt her child in a heat beat. no to what?? I would not lend her the money. If her reasons for wanting an abortion were strictly financial, I would help her financially in any other way I could. Otherwise I would be there for her and the child for support. If that is not an option though...no, I would not lend her the money for an abortion.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Tue 04/22/08 01:27 PM
friend etc got pregnant and wanted a abortion and she asked YOU if you would lend her the money for the abortion, would you say yes or no?? How does piss up a rope sound?

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 04/22/08 01:29 PM
that's what confused me...the different threads. going by the other thread...no I wouldn't give her money but there is something clearly wrong with her mind. But there are situations where I would. how long ago did she ask for money for this and how recent was she pregnant this last time?

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Tue 04/22/08 01:31 PM
that's what confused me...the different threads. going by the other thread...no I wouldn't give her money but there is something clearly wrong with her mind. But there are situations where I would. how long ago did she ask for money for this and how recent was she pregnant this last time? sorry the threads are about DIFFERENT people, it wasnt my cousin who asked me to lend the money it was someone else.