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Topic: I got a question for the women out there
lilith401's photo
Tue 04/22/08 05:01 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Tue 04/22/08 05:01 PM
I agree with Fran, as I so often do. Romance is an attitude, not an action or activity. Contrived grand gestures are better suited for proposals and such, if at all.

How you act, what you say, and how you look at her are romance. It has little or nothing to do with money. If you think it does... avoid what you think of as romantic. I'd bet you might have more actual romance that way. flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 04/22/08 05:03 PM


I try to be very romantic when It comes to dating. I'm always like that. My ex girlfriend didnt appreciate it anymore. I guess she just got used to it.



A romantic dinner and walk on the beach might be okay once or twice ~~but not as a steady diet.... it could get old.

Treating a woman like a lady is nice and respectful, especially in public. But there comes a time when a woman needs a man who will be the confident alpha male she desires.

What I am saying is don't cater to her, put her on a pedestal, always trying to please or impress her. If there is sexual attraction there at all, let her chase you a little. Don't be so easy. Be interesting, be mysterious.

JB




who said anything about a steady diet? he asked about one date laugh

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Tue 04/22/08 05:07 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Tue 04/22/08 05:07 PM


who said anything about a steady diet? he asked about one date laugh


I was responding to his problem of his X-girlfriend whom he said must have got used to it and did not appreciate it any more.

You can impress a woman once or twice with a walk on the beach and a candle light dinner or picnic but if you want a lasting relationship you will have to have more than that.

JB

hikerchick's photo
Tue 04/22/08 05:10 PM
My idea of a romantic date is a 10K hike with a guy who helps me on the difficult parts.

limsweetlim's photo
Wed 04/23/08 04:10 PM
A nice massage while the sun sets w/some oils will be the ultimate romantic date followed by wine, cheese & crackers and some soft romantic music; Barry White, Al Green... etc...

wickedlluccy's photo
Wed 04/23/08 04:28 PM


...knowing and talking to women from say a 40 yrs spread...the ideas of romantic are like night and day...you have to decide, investigate, read...etc, according to the age group of women you really want to have a relationship with...romance to one might be a way of life and mind set and behavior another, it might be doing things, going places...you have to form your own style of romance that appeals to you and you are comfortable with and can afford, then find a women whom finds the same things romantic ....flowerforyou



:heart:~wicked~:heart:

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Wed 04/23/08 07:28 PM
Take your lady for a scooter ride down the panama strip...do not wear a shirt...then take her too see big Al the gator in that big shopping mall (forget the name)...next how about a ride on a parasail for 2...then boogey on down the beach and hop on the HOT banana towable for some wild wet fun! bigsmile Would love to go if I were about 30 some odd years younger LOLlaugh

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