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Topic: Chew on this a while.....
Peccy's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:14 AM
Ok you really like someone, and you have gone out 3-4 times and had a wonderful time. Wine flows freely and they tell you something personal. It seems that they have some rare tropical disease and aren't expected to live any longer than 2 years max.

So... do you cut your losses and end it with them now to prevent assured heartbreak in the future. OR Do you stand beside them regardless of the odds?

Wonderbread's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:15 AM
Stand by them.

Spaceman2008's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:15 AM
Stand by them.

JulieMP's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:17 AM
If i understand correct they engaged under false pretense

something like that should be disclosed upon meeting

let em rot

jnjsmomma's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:17 AM
Stand by them

Peccy's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:19 AM
Edited by Peccy on Tue 04/22/08 12:21 AM

OrangeCat's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:20 AM
if u truly love them u love em no matter what.I be right there with em

Peccy's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:20 AM


If i understand correct they engaged under false pretense

something like that should be disclosed upon meeting

let em rot

So caring

allinoell's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:21 AM
Stand by them.... wouldn't you hope they'd stand by you?

jonny63's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:22 AM
I would stand by them because I cared for them.
Make sure they wouldn't be alone when they died.

Tanyall83's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:22 AM

Ok you really like someone, and you have gone out 3-4 times and had a wonderful time. Wine flows freely and they tell you something personal. It seems that they have some rare tropical disease and aren't expected to live any longer than 2 years max.

So... do you cut your losses and end it with them now to prevent assured heartbreak in the future. OR Do you stand beside them regardless of the odds?


How can you honestly devote yourself to someone you have only been out with 3 or 4 times... i would be friend them and be there for them but that would be it ...

Knightime's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:22 AM
is it contagious ? if not Im there if so ... Id be ticked cause chances are I've now gotten it !

LaughaLittle101's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:23 AM
Id love to say the whole jackass thing and skirt the f&%k out but id just end up sticking right there side by side til their departure from earthsmooched Theres nothing wrong with that it just buids u up and makes character

no photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:26 AM
Stand by them!!drinker

allinoell's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:27 AM
we are meant to know, care for, and love many people in this lifetime. the relationship may not be long term, but they still may have love to give you that you can carry on in life... even if it means we have to go through pain, they are still worth including among our loved ones

asonginyourheart's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:33 AM
Been there. Done that. And I would do it again. I met someone who became my best friend, just after meeting a few times. Later married them, and a year and a half later, he died. Yes, I would do it. I would do it all over again. I wouldn't want to miss a thing in my life that is meant for me to experience.

Totage's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:35 AM

Ok you really like someone, and you have gone out 3-4 times and had a wonderful time. Wine flows freely and they tell you something personal. It seems that they have some rare tropical disease and aren't expected to live any longer than 2 years max.

So... do you cut your losses and end it with them now to prevent assured heartbreak in the future. OR Do you stand beside them regardless of the odds?


Stick by them, in 2 years they could find a cure, better treatment, etc. They could even turn out to live longer than 2 years.

no photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:35 AM
Ive found that the medical field is full of bs most of the time and most people outlive the outcomes of whatever doctors have told them......

If I really loved them then I would stick by them!flowerforyou

OrangeCat's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:37 AM
gypsy u are deff right there.why I dont like doctors to much,half the time they are wrong

EtherealEmbers's photo
Tue 04/22/08 12:43 AM
You didn't mention if they really like you, too...

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