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Hmmmmmmmmmm deep issues if you arent having sex in the marriage.......either youre not doing it right or she doesnt like you much!!!   Or she's doing everyone else. |
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i now pronounce you man and wife til no sex do you part.  LOL Amen!!!  Sex is too damn important in my book. And to marry that person..better be at least one time a day the house will be rockin for an hour or more..otherwise I would not be happy. So make sure you are compatable in that area BEFORE you make such a commitment. 
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i think many of the no sex issues come form people getting too caught up in being comfortable. When you focus on the comfort you tend to change from being the person your partner was attracted to. Does not mean that you are not in love, just lack the physical attraction. I guess my point is, just because you are married doesn't mean you should stop spittin your game everyone once in a while.
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i think many of the no sex issues come form people getting too caught up in being comfortable. When you focus on the comfort you tend to change from being the person your partner was attracted to. Does not mean that you are not in love, just lack the physical attraction. I guess my point is, just because you are married doesn't mean you should stop spittin your game everyone once in a while. I think it's not taking time sex happens to soon and you aren't fiends first. Then u find out later that this person is not who u first thought they were and sex becomes less attractive as the person does. The spark was not cultivated slowly. Just my opinion 
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Edited by
Drivinmenutz
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Mon 04/21/08 09:30 PM
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sparks never are...love yes, but sparks, no.
But i agree with you as far as the friend thing goes. You really need to get to knwo the other person before getting serious. Sex, to some people, is however an important part of getting to know someone... |
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sparks never are...love yes, but sparks, no. Love can't be true if u just meet someone and u have sex...it's just lust and that's how most relationships start, and that's why they don't last........I speak from experience. 
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sparks never are...love yes, but sparks, no. Love can't be true if u just meet someone and u have sex...it's just lust and that's how most relationships start, and that's why they don't last........I speak from experience. Friends first, always. |
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sparks never are...love yes, but sparks, no. Love can't be true if u just meet someone and u have sex...it's just lust and that's how most relationships start, and that's why they don't last........I speak from experience. Friends first, always. Thank u Jonny..........nice to see u how are u doing? |
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sparks never are...love yes, but sparks, no. Love can't be true if u just meet someone and u have sex...it's just lust and that's how most relationships start, and that's why they don't last........I speak from experience. love can grow out of anything that leads to respect. Some people can pull off the lust first, than love, it usually turns out complicated though. Depends on how sexual the two of you are. Also depends on your romantic lives and your social lives continuing as normal while all this sex is going on. Not impossible, just impractical. ( I hear ya on the experience thing. Many rocky roads have to be traveled to reach some destinations.) |
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i think many of the no sex issues come form people getting too caught up in being comfortable. When you focus on the comfort you tend to change from being the person your partner was attracted to. Does not mean that you are not in love, just lack the physical attraction. I guess my point is, just because you are married doesn't mean you should stop spittin your game everyone once in a while. I think it's not taking time sex happens to soon and you aren't fiends first. Then u find out later that this person is not who u first thought they were and sex becomes less attractive as the person does. The spark was not cultivated slowly. Just my opinion Agreed in some cases, but not in most. Sex is something within itself and we are ALL made sexual creatures...thats just simple fact. But psychy does play a HUGE role in it as well. It's NOT just a physical act..at least the great stuff isn;t. Unfortunately most guys don;t understand that you make love to a woman, starting with her MIND! Even just the "sex for sex" still works the same way...much better if you go through her MIND to get her aroused...then her body follows. So guys, you want to get her in the "mood", do things that will get her in the "mood". There's always going to be times when you don't feel like having sex, and just not interested. But even that can be overcome when done in the right ways. I had a stronger sex drive than my wife, so I had to learn how to get her "in the mood" and did it the RIGHT WAY (there are wrong ways to go about it too) And never once did she not also very much enjoy it as well....even though she started out "not in the mood".
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Is it just me I had plenty of sex when I was married. She just kept interrupting it. |
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Is it just me I had plenty of sex when I was married. She just kept interrupting it. ROFLMAO...now that's LEX!!!
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i think many of the no sex issues come form people getting too caught up in being comfortable. When you focus on the comfort you tend to change from being the person your partner was attracted to. Does not mean that you are not in love, just lack the physical attraction. I guess my point is, just because you are married doesn't mean you should stop spittin your game everyone once in a while. I think it's not taking time sex happens to soon and you aren't fiends first. Then u find out later that this person is not who u first thought they were and sex becomes less attractive as the person does. The spark was not cultivated slowly. Just my opinion Agreed in some cases, but not in most. Sex is something within itself and we are ALL made sexual creatures...thats just simple fact. But psychy does play a HUGE role in it as well. It's NOT just a physical act..at least the great stuff isn;t. Unfortunately most guys don;t understand that you make love to a woman, starting with her MIND! Even just the "sex for sex" still works the same way...much better if you go through her MIND to get her aroused...then her body follows. So guys, you want to get her in the "mood", do things that will get her in the "mood". There's always going to be times when you don't feel like having sex, and just not interested. But even that can be overcome when done in the right ways. I had a stronger sex drive than my wife, so I had to learn how to get her "in the mood" and did it the RIGHT WAY (there are wrong ways to go about it too) And never once did she not also very much enjoy it as well....even though she started out "not in the mood". U have a point of course but for me friendship comes first and then we can explore the mental and physical part of the relationship. And have ear ringing eyeball rolling sex.
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 If you really FEEL in love with each other,,,the SEX will ALWAYS BE THERE, its when YOU or HER start to feel something else? And THATS when SEX starts being seen as AN ITEM of DUTY.. Instead of just happening.. Talk open, be open. Don't let either one of you NOT really FEEL GOOD, but pretend NOTHING wrong,,,,,because THEN,,,its to late. |
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U have a point of course but for me friendship comes first and then we can explore the mental and physical part of the relationship. And have ear ringing eyeball rolling sex. Well of course. If that part needs to be explained to anyone..well they have a LOT to learn. That's also what I meant about the psychy..its all the emtional and mental factors within that person. The two people should CONNECT and have the same mindset...you know..CLICK!  The "psychy" or mental/emotional part is a HUGE part that is a MUST for things to work well. Again great sex is NOT just a physical act, its a combination of core things. Then is when you get to the great sex where you can;t walk for at least 10 min after because you have no strength to do so.
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U have a point of course but for me friendship comes first and then we can explore the mental and physical part of the relationship. And have ear ringing eyeball rolling sex. Well of course. If that part needs to be explained to anyone..well they have a LOT to learn. That's also what I meant about the psychy..its all the emtional and mental factors within that person. The two people should CONNECT and have the same mindset...you know..CLICK! The "psychy" or mental/emotional part is a HUGE part that is a MUST for things to work well. Again great sex is NOT just a physical act, its a combination of core things. Then is when you get to the great sex where you can;t walk for at least 10 min after because you have no strength to do so.
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