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Flirtyvirgo Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 1937	Mon 04/21/08 06:44 PM
I am stressing out tonight, well I have been for awhile. Had another dispute with the "ex~boyfriend" or Better known as "Baby's Daddy"!! I hate how men use the kids as a way to manipulate the mother. Total disrespect

Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Mon 04/21/08 06:45 PM
I'm kidless but I'm sure it goes both ways in other relationships...the kids will finally figure it out when they're older so just hang in there.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Mon 04/21/08 06:45 PM
I am stressing out tonight, well I have been for awhile. Had another dispute with the "ex~boyfriend" or Better known as "Baby's Daddy"!! I hate how men use the kids as a way to manipulate the mother. Total disrespect a person of any gender who uses their child for manipulative purposes is far from a respectable human being

link97my Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 6798	Mon 04/21/08 06:45 PM
I know what you mean my ex- is kinda doing the same thing to me......

USmale47374 Joined Sun 06/24/07 Posts: 835	Mon 04/21/08 06:46 PM
If you truly find his conduct unacceptable, send him packing.

docburneraz Joined Mon 01/07/08 Posts: 417	Mon 04/21/08 06:46 PM
No thats " baby daddy" Geez

Flirtyvirgo Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 1937	Mon 04/21/08 06:47 PM
No thats " baby daddy" Geez Isnt that what I said

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Mon 04/21/08 06:50 PM
my ex trys this all the time...hang in there my daughter asked me the other night .."dad can I live with you." I said yes of course she was like YEA..mom I'm going to live with dad.... its the little things that have to make you smile....and yes I have rules ,curfew,chores....and they want to be with me go figure

crazy_lover Joined Tue 03/18/08 Posts: 444	Mon 04/21/08 06:53 PM
my ex does that with me...but i have custody and he wont do his visitaion to spite me....i dont believe in it

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Mon 04/21/08 06:54 PM
No thats " baby daddy" Geez Isnt that what I said u said it correctly... u have 2 children...

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Mon 04/21/08 07:04 PM Edited by lifestooshort6 on Mon 04/21/08 07:05 PM
who do they really hurt? the kids, not too hard to figure out but.....whatever you'd think they'd figure that out...but NO! every weekend for months now one of my three have come home heart-broken at something dumb he's done or said i'm just letting him dig his own grave, soon they'll never want to go there and he'll still blame me best advice SMILE and say nothing, just LOVE your kids and it'll all work out (fingers-crossed)

Flirtyvirgo Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 1937	Mon 04/21/08 07:06 PM
who do they really hurt? the kids, not too hard to figure out but.....whatever you'd think they'd figure that out...but NO! every weekend for months now one of my three have come home heart-broken at something dumb he's done or said i'm just letting him dig his own grave, soon they'll never want to go there and he'll still blame me best advice SMILE and say nothing, just LOVE your kids and it'll all work out (fingers-crossed) I hear ya on that, it's only hurting the kids in the long run. men just forget to think about that.

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Mon 04/21/08 07:15 PM
it is SO hard watching your babies being played with and mind-screwed. i just look at where it's coming from and PRAY for my kids protection and minds when they are with him. because the damage they inflict is on the soul-level. i NEVER want my kids to think they are unworthy of love. i have been BLESSED with AWESOME kids and I am so very PROUD of them, no matter what as a parent who gives a damn, keep your head up and love those kids

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Mon 04/21/08 08:23 PM
who do they really hurt? the kids, not too hard to figure out but.....whatever you'd think they'd figure that out...but NO! every weekend for months now one of my three have come home heart-broken at something dumb he's done or said i'm just letting him dig his own grave, soon they'll never want to go there and he'll still blame me best advice SMILE and say nothing, just LOVE your kids and it'll all work out (fingers-crossed) I hear ya on that, it's only hurting the kids in the long run. men just forget to think about that. ummm ladies please...I promise you its not all men....my ex uses our children as pawns all the time..... and I couldnt agree with you more

viraloneontheout Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2333	Mon 04/21/08 08:35 PM Edited by viraloneontheout on Mon 04/21/08 08:36 PM
who do they really hurt? the kids, not too hard to figure out but.....whatever you'd think they'd figure that out...but NO! every weekend for months now one of my three have come home heart-broken at something dumb he's done or said i'm just letting him dig his own grave, soon they'll never want to go there and he'll still blame me best advice SMILE and say nothing, just LOVE your kids and it'll all work out (fingers-crossed) I hear ya on that, it's only hurting the kids in the long run. men just forget to think about that. ummm ladies please...I promise you its not all men....my ex uses our children as pawns all the time..... and I couldnt agree with you more Amen awolf not all us men are dogs and pieces some of us take good care of our kids

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Mon 04/21/08 09:16 PM
Father of 2 daughters here, with appts at the dentist, shrink,orthodontist, late night picks from the UAW hall(local rock shows) because I live closer, child support comes right out of my paycheck and paid to state so if its late, its not my fault. Plus help with home work either on ph. or online. All holidays with their Mom. Every other wk-end and a dinner night with me, some vacation time too. Plus if someone misses the bus, guess who. When we were married we worked different shifts so the girls weren't in day care 8 hrs a day. I felt like a single parent for a lot of years. Some of us take our children seriously.

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Mon 04/21/08 09:18 PM
kcik his ass to the curb. move on. find a real man!

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Tue 04/22/08 12:35 PM
who do they really hurt? the kids, not too hard to figure out but.....whatever you'd think they'd figure that out...but NO! every weekend for months now one of my three have come home heart-broken at something dumb he's done or said i'm just letting him dig his own grave, soon they'll never want to go there and he'll still blame me best advice SMILE and say nothing, just LOVE your kids and it'll all work out (fingers-crossed) I hear ya on that, it's only hurting the kids in the long run. men just forget to think about that. ummm ladies please...I promise you its not all men....my ex uses our children as pawns all the time..... and I couldnt agree with you more I said "they" as in the other parent. I know that there are many GREAT dads out there. It just happens to be the dad that's the jerk in my case. I meant no offence to all the good dads out there.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 04/22/08 12:36 PM
I am stressing out tonight, well I have been for awhile. Had another dispute with the "ex~boyfriend" or Better known as "Baby's Daddy"!! I hate how men use the kids as a way to manipulate the mother. Total disrespect It's evil. My sister is going through a situation like that.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 04/22/08 12:37 PM
I am stressing out tonight, well I have been for awhile. Had another dispute with the "ex~boyfriend" or Better known as "Baby's Daddy"!! I hate how men use the kids as a way to manipulate the mother. Total disrespect oh I'm sooo excited.... yet another "Man" generalization.....yeehawwwwww