I agree with you on that one

get cold feet...think we went to far to soon...and so back off to watch reaction.....

Don't not just get boys......I've had some women flirt with me pretty heavy and then tell me that I'm awesome and not want to ruin a friendship.....

Sometimes happens too often then just walk away tired of playing the games.

This is what I am referring to. This is the complexity of women's thoughts. Nothing at all wrong with it, it's how women are.

I'm just trying to point this out to the men, because guys are usually very "simple" thinkers.

Women refer to whats gong on here as a "game" and "maybe he will eventually want to be more". To be honest, you are setting your own fall. You are "wishing", "hoping", whatever term you want to use...but then your "dream" gets smashed by "reality".

And like in this case, the guy seemingly has already stated his position..so if you chase and get hurt, don;t blame the guy.

I didnt plan to. Once he manned up and stated his position, I walk away. I refuse to CHASE any man.

And just WHERE have YOU been?

I hate to break this too you, but that thing hanging down to my knees is NOT a tail. Just to clarify.

(sorry, could not resist that open shot)

you jackass! lol

Is this the same guy you were flirting with that you said was not paying any attention to you & you couldn't figure it out..

Hey..you really do know me!!!

Maybe because the work place isn't the best place to fall in love with a co worker, think about it for a minute or two and or longer.

Why ruin what you have. Surely he might want more but he probably knows if it doesn't work out then he has to be around you every day or whenever he works or look for something else because he doesn't feel good any more to be around others that could make smart a$$ remarks about him because you could of said something etc.

Not cool. Now I'm not sticking up for him or anybody, I'm just pointing out some facts, that even most companys don't even allow work place people to fall in love or go out with one another etc, that I know of.

Unless your company doesn't care and your not that type of person to make rumors up and talk trash about the other if it doesn't work out etc, then go for it.

I see where your coming from. and its not like that at all. Where we work its kind of protocol that you keep inside relatonships on the downlo, to save from rumors.

Im unsure of whom you speak of. Hes not NOT payed attention to me. He flirts hard.

Oh okay.

Well maybe you should ask this guy out to go to a movie or bar or something, just a thought... but that's up to you and all.

I know if I was asked out and I liked the woman too, I would say sure, but that's just me.

Plus I have to say it's some what hard for some guys to say how they feel when they too are scared of being rejected and all, if not just as much as woman are etc.

Doesn't matter what he says she says or whatever. If you like your job it's always better to keep personal relationships away. When things are not so good in a relationship most people can't separate their at home from at work lives.

Well, 1st off, I have asked him to some of my shows. and he kindly declined, as he has his kids every weekend. Secondly, he and I have had some serious convo's about his fear of rejection and relationships, and I am in complete understanding of his situation, however, he has told me to be patient, yet turns around and tells me he doesnt want to ruin our friendship?

Well maybe he just isn't ready to go out with you or do anything else out side of work.

Maybe you should just move on then, find some one else who would be willing to hang out with you etc.

Well, ive stopped flirting with him, and he approached me asking if I was ok, so he knows whats up. Im done, I refuse to chase anyone specially someone who isnt really interested in me on a more physical level.

Yeah and that's totally understandable.