Hey whats up I have a question I'm on date site other then this one. I have the same pics and same profile. Tell me what you think?

Am i ugly? Do I have a boring profile? Do I come across as a creep? Whats going on? I'm so baffled at the fact that I send out messages to people and get no response! I don't have this much problem in person so whats going on?



LET'S DISCUSS...

are you cheating on me?

yes I had no other way of telling you this since we never spoke before lol

I think your profile is fantastic.

But in case you haven't noticed, I think "nice" is a four letter word, when used about yourself. Change your headliner.... ?

Just a suggestion.

What should the headliner read?

we don't needs words



shhhh just let me love you

Damn girl you on some wacky tobaccy

i dont see anything wrong.. just that your way to young for me

ok so I'm not ugly right? I honestly think I'm cute. I look younger then I am and I have almost a baby face well when I shave kinda. I'm not hot but I'm just an average guy right?

Headliner... hmmmmm

Mine says I believe in unicorns, as in my profile I make it an abstract reference to how I view love and wonder.

It needs to be original. I trust you'll have no difficulty thinking of something that suits you.

..what lilith said! good luck!

oh honey lighten up just trying to get you to smile you seem alittle down on yourself

well it's not that I'm down. I'm just really puzzled that I send out messages to girls I'm interested in I know they read them cause they look at my profile. They don't respond to me. I write cute messages like
"Hi how are like to get to know you. Write back soon"
and no response So where am I going wrong?

no one responds to me either, just keep sending messages and if they don't respond they aren't good for you, so they aren't worth getting upset over i understand its frustrating but eventually you will find someone perfect maybe not today someday when you're not looking

sounds too much like a coined phrase - come up with something unique - i like when someone picks up on something i've written in my profile and shares why they like that too. and definitely hang out in the forums, you'll meet alot of cool people here! JMO

well the site I use is different from this one. I like this one for the community section. The other one is totally different.

OKcupid.com

Exactly... the mails you send should not be generic. They should be about a paragraph, and personalized to why you are writing.

I get a lot of, "Hey, want to chat?" I reply with, "About what?" Or "I just wanted to say hi". I reply with "Hi back". I give what I get... you see?

And with my SO... I referenced his posts (I sent the first mail, but my restrictions prevented him from mailing me) and said how I was sure I was missing out because he was so far away. It turns out, I was. I gave him my number that same day, we met in person about six weeks later...

The personal mail shows the person that you are not playing the numbers game and there was something about them you found special.

Some girls want more than a kiss on the cheek goodnight!

i just noticed how unpicky i am sometimes not good!!!!