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I found out the guy Im supposed to visit in a few mos already has another girl visiting him and flirting with another here.  ANDddddddd?? Theres ALOT missing here.?? Did you TWO have a committed relationship? Has HE TOLD YOU there was NO-BODY ELSE in his life? Has he told YOU NOT to be with ANYONE else? Unless you two are AN ITEM of agreement as to be ALONE for only the TWO of you....then anything is nothing? Until you BOTH AGREE that your willing to JUST be with EACH OTHER!!  |
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I found out the guy Im supposed to visit in a few mos already has another girl visiting him and flirting with another here. ANDddddddd?? Theres ALOT missing here.?? Did you TWO have a committed relationship? Has HE TOLD YOU there was NO-BODY ELSE in his life? Has he told YOU NOT to be with ANYONE else? Unless you two are AN ITEM of agreement as to be ALONE for only the TWO of you....then anything is nothing? Until you BOTH AGREE that your willing to JUST be with EACH OTHER!! 
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I guess it would depend on whether you consider meeting someone for the first time a "date" and if he did and if they only met once or if they are going to be dating. Wow, that's complicated. I think I would consider meeting a "date", so it would be like going out with someone who's dating someone already, or thinking of dating someone. I wouldn't go. I'm only going to meet someone as a friend so don't really have to worry about that. Thank goodness!
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Yipee!!One for the fellas!!  ..liked your picture but the tude...ur a bit of a onker huh...looks are deceiving huh..... |
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I guess it would depend on whether you consider meeting someone for the first time a "date" and if he did and if they only met once or if they are going to be dating. Wow, that's complicated. I think I would consider meeting a "date", so it would be like going out with someone who's dating someone already, or thinking of dating someone. I wouldn't go. I'm only going to meet someone as a friend so don't really have to worry about that. Thank goodness! Yeah...what she said
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Yipee!!One for the fellas!!  ..liked your picture but the tude...ur a bit of a onker huh...looks are deceiving huh.....
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Yipee!!One for the fellas!! ..liked your picture but the tude...ur a bit of a onker huh...looks are deceiving huh..... get w/the program hun...when you you quote somebody on here it is them and not the poster you are referencing......
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Edited by
lilith401
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Sat 04/19/08 01:06 PM
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I can understand completely. I live in the midwest and my SO is on the west coast. If I knew he was dating or meeting others, I doubt our meeting would have happened, or at least happened the way it did. But then again, I am not interested in men who play the numbers game. Once I got to know him, I decided there was no way I would be comfortable with just a casual thing. Before we met... I knew that.
The investment alone of the travel expenses are enough to make you want to not go, I'd imagine. That does not seem to me, a fair price to be one of many. JMO |
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I can understand completely. I live in the midwest and my SO is on the west coast. If I knew he was dating or meeting others, I doubt our meeting would have happened, or at least happened the way it did. But then again, I am not interested in men who play the numbers game. Once I got to know him, I decided there was no way I would be comfortable with just a casual thing. Before we met... I knew that. The investment alone of the travel expenses are enough to make you want to not go, I'd imagine. That does not seem to me, a fair price to be one of many. JMO .....ME TOO....lilith good advice !!!! |
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Thank you, wicked!
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i'm not trying to be out of line here - but perhaps he feels you are flirting with other guys - sometimes we have to look within before we can see what causes anothers actions.
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Personally, if you both have not met yet?
And you have agreed their is strong feelings for each other. Then you both have to have trust and you both have to KNOW your EXPECTATIONS as to WHAT you guys ARE??? Long distance relationships takes LOTS,and LOTS, of trust and planning and giving. To work out.. To me THIS only shows HE is still keeping himself open to not lose another who also he may only know as a friend, and NOT want to lose because of simply meeting a friend in person,(you).... 
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