Topic: im through with men
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Fri 04/18/08 09:05 AM
today was a bad day for me the guy i was seeing that i said was having sex with one of co worker we ended that today he's a bastard and always will be he told me last night we was going to go out today and then all of a sudden he tells me he didn't say that and that he was going soemwheree today which is the same day she is off so i called him told him to come get his **** and never call me again

hellkitten54's photo
Fri 04/18/08 09:09 AM
You did the right thing, just remember to not answer his calls anymore and move on. You deserve better.

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Fri 04/18/08 09:10 AM
You go girl!! If a man can't cherish you the way you should be, he just isn't worth your time!! Trust me! There are men out there who won't do that. Keep the faith!! (((Hugs)))

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Fri 04/18/08 09:10 AM
Keep your head up You are a BEAUTIFUL lady and deserve much better!!!flowerforyou

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Fri 04/18/08 09:11 AM
Glad you know now though.... rather than later. flowerforyou

It'll get better and congratulations! Now you can meet a great guy.

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Fri 04/18/08 09:12 AM
You're a strong woman who plenty of men will desire...AND respect, not a door mat! Hurrah for you! You deserve so much better. flowerforyou

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Fri 04/18/08 09:12 AM
ME TOO..I'M A LESIBIAN NOW

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Fri 04/18/08 09:20 AM
but it's hard i miss him im just fighting the urge right now to call him in a way i don't in another way i do but if i do im goign to get myself right back in the same spot so it's over im done with him i might even try women later on j/k

Monier's photo
Fri 04/18/08 09:21 AM
Friends are FOREVER, boys are WHATEVER

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Fri 04/18/08 09:23 AM
Try to focus on your choices rather than his.

If you can ask yourself how you ended up with this type of man to begin with, the likelihood of you ending up with the same type of person in the future will be slim.

You will then be drawn to a man who will treat you with respect and dignity and you won't need to kick all men to the curb, so to speak.

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Fri 04/18/08 09:25 AM

but it's hard i miss him im just fighting the urge right now to call him in a way i don't in another way i do but if i do im goign to get myself right back in the same spot so it's over im done with him i might even try women later on j/k


It's hard now, cause it's still fresh. Fight that urge girl. Time will make it better. There are sooooooooooooo many guys that will treat you good out there. Believe me, you have to kiss the frogs before you find your prince. It took me almost 32 years to find the love of my life. Don't give up!flowerforyou

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Fri 04/18/08 09:26 AM
i guess he thought i was never going to find out im going to get my life on track before i add somebody else to it

wiley's photo
Fri 04/18/08 09:26 AM

ME TOO..I'M A LESIBIAN NOW


I'm not sure what that is...but I'm convinced I'm a closet lesbian.

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Fri 04/18/08 09:28 AM

i guess he thought i was never going to find out im going to get my life on track before i add somebody else to it


See now thats great thinkin sweetie!! Good luck to you!!flowerforyou

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Fri 04/18/08 10:24 AM

but it's hard i miss him im just fighting the urge right now to call him in a way i don't in another way i do but if i do im goign to get myself right back in the same spot so it's over im done with him i might even try women later on j/k
Before you break down and call him...try asking yourself the hard hard question, is it HIM you miss or the dream of what he could have been to you? Of course you miss the good times, very few are completely void of charms, but remember that you can't separate the good and the bad from the man, but the two make the whole...now do you still really miss him?