What does it mean to you? I think men & women may have dirrent ideas about this. To me it means a woman who spends a lot of time & money on herself & expects a man to foot the bill for her lifestyle. I think of expensive clothes, jewelry, cars, vacations, frequent manicures & hair appointments. I am definately not high maintenance by this defination, however I have been told by men that I am. I think they might mean the amount of time & attention I want. What does "high maintenace" mean to you?

What does it mean to you? I think men & women may have dirrent ideas about this. To me it means a woman who spends a lot of time & money on herself & expects a man to foot the bill for her lifestyle. I think of expensive clothes, jewelry, cars, vacations, frequent manicures & hair appointments. I am definately not high maintenance by this defination, however I have been told by men that I am. I think they might mean the amount of time & attention I want. What does "high maintenace" mean to you?

RJ what did I hit on the head? The defination or the defferent interpretations of the sexes?

What does it mean to you? I think men & women may have dirrent ideas about this. To me it means a woman who spends a lot of time & money on herself & expects a man to foot the bill for her lifestyle. I think of expensive clothes, jewelry, cars, vacations, frequent manicures & hair appointments. I am definately not high maintenance by this defination, however I have been told by men that I am. I think they might mean the amount of time & attention I want. What does "high maintenace" mean to you?

Thank you for your input Wiley. I think


*wondering if I was just called crazy...*

What does it mean to you? I think men & women may have dirrent ideas about this. To me it means a woman who spends a lot of time & money on herself & expects a man to foot the bill for her lifestyle. I think of expensive clothes, jewelry, cars, vacations, frequent manicures & hair appointments. I am definately not high maintenance by this defination, however I have been told by men that I am. I think they might mean the amount of time & attention I want. What does "high maintenace" mean to you?

Ok Toasted but Why? Is it the money & spoiled attitude or the desire for intimacy & attention?

It means nothing is simple.

It means you can't just go out for a burger and a shake and enjoy... you have to go to this restuarant, or that one, and you can't go to that one because one time in 1989 she found a dead fly on the floor....

It means renting a movie is a chore because you can't just go and rent something new or something familiar and go home and watch it. No, you need to make sure that the DVD plays correctly before you leave the store because she's been screwed before by DVDs that don't play. And if they have three movies for 5 bucks, you have to get three movies instead of one movie for 3.99 because that's a better deal....

You can't go take in a baseball game at the local team's park because the sun is glaring and there's no way you're going to sit in the middle because then you have to walk down the aisle every time you want to get up and why do you have to keep getting up now that you're sitting on the aisle, don't these people know you're trying to watch a game? Why are the bathrooms so far away. I'm not eating a hot dog. Is the car safe in the parking lot?

I, seriously, could write a book. I have thousands of examples.

well imo, there are two different types. the loads of cash spent on herself and dumb ****, expecting me to pay out for more dumb ****. or the clingy "i gotta call him 20 times a day" kinda girl.

i'm not ok with the first type at all. i'm not big on posessions anyway, so someone who lives their life by what they have and how they look wouldn't be for me. that's shallow and a very sad life.

the 2nd type, i'm semi ok with, but not to the excessive extent. i'm all for doing things with and being with my girlie, why else would i have her? but i hate the deal where you get called and noone has **** to say but you gotta stay on the phone. gotta devote your time to some bs. i'm all for spending time, i'm all for being with her more than my friends. i'm not intending to be intimate with friends nor anything else. I'M probably too high mantainence on that level than a few girls wanna deal with. i don't believe a relationship is about space and always doing your own thing, that's a friendship with sex and me spending my money.

It means nothing is simple.

It means you can't just go out for a burger and a shake and enjoy... you have to go to this restuarant, or that one, and you can't go to that one because one time in 1989 she found a dead fly on the floor....

It means renting a movie is a chore because you can't just go and rent something new or something familiar and go home and watch it. No, you need to make sure that the DVD plays correctly before you leave the store because she's been screwed before by DVDs that don't play. And if they have three movies for 5 bucks, you have to get three movies instead of one movie for 3.99 because that's a better deal....

You can't go take in a baseball game at the local team's park because the sun is glaring and there's no way you're going to sit in the middle because then you have to walk down the aisle every time you want to get up and why do you have to keep getting up now that you're sitting on the aisle, don't these people know you're trying to watch a game? Why are the bathrooms so far away. I'm not eating a hot dog. Is the car safe in the parking lot?

I, seriously, could write a book. I have thousands of examples.