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Topic: I have a girlfriend
EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:12 PM
If you had the "nice guy personality" as you said, you wouldn't be hanging onto someone you don't love just to not hurt her, because you ARE hurting her by having her stay when she's not wanted.

If the shoe were on the other foot, would you want to be dumped or would you want to be a temporary consolation prize?

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:51 PM

Yeah, thanks for the advice. I have a real problem here. The girl is great, yet I don't feel anything. I was wondering if I should pursue the relationship and hope I fell for her later or just end it now and move on. I mis-spoke when I said I was looking-what I meant to say was someone told me about this place and I was randomly browsing. I've never cheated on anyone in my life and don't want to start-been there and I wouldn't do that to my worst enemy. Hell, the girl I am with now was engaged when her fiancee cheated on her and I may not love her, but she doesn't deserve that twice in her life.

Its funny-its long distance now and we haven't seen each other in two weeks. I know how this weekend is gonna go-we see each other on Saturday, she does something that reminds me this is the best relationship I have ever had, and I have to tell her that I simply don't love her. This is gonna suck and I was hoping for some sort of support here. The people who say break up and move on-its cold, yet is likely true. The people who call me a piece of ****-hey, I'm have the "nice guy" personality girls say they want yet ditch when some random asshole comes knocking. The odd thing is-not a single person has said, "You like the girl, yet don't love her yet. See if you can work it out."

I know she loves me and I know whats gonna happen-all I was hoping for was an excuse not to break her heart. Its sick-I hate what is gonna happen, but that is it. Apparently, this makes me a cheating piece of ****.


In these kind of situations I like to turn to a coin flip, here let me tell you how: Take a quarter on top of your thumb resting on your pointer finger, make sure it is balanced, flick your thumb off your pointer finger, call heads or tails and catch the coin, slap it on top of your other hand...wazzlah! Magic.

Lily0923's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:52 PM

yet am searching sites because she annoys me and I want to find something better, which is odd because on paper, she is perfect. Does this make me a jackass?


YES. Break up with her first.....JERK.

Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:54 PM
This dude rules!!!laugh laugh laugh

JaceKnows's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:55 PM

yet am searching sites because she annoys me and I want to find something better, which is odd because on paper, she is perfect. Does this make me a jackass?


Perfect, but she annoys you? Makes you sound like more than a jackass, dude.

Have the common courtesy to break up with her, THEN stick your penis in as many websites as you want.

You're pathetic. Truly.

Peccy's photo
Wed 04/16/08 10:56 PM
Edited by Peccy on Wed 04/16/08 10:58 PM
Get out of it....she's too good for you, it even says so on paper!
Why you would choose virtual over real life is beyond me, unless you like beating the salami to pictures that are not real.

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