(I don't know if anyone read my post earlier this week, but...) one of my close guy friends admitted to having feelings for me. He then told me the next day that he didn't feel like he could do anything about it because I used to date one of his friends. I used to have strong feelings for him, so this was a big deal. We talked about it, smoothed things over and we were fine.

Here's the kicker: He starts text messaging me yesterday asking what my house number is and whatnot. I ask him why, and he tells me that he wants to come by and give MY ROOMMATE some flowers and ask her out on a date.


Why don't you just go ahead and pour the whole shaker of salt right into that wound you gave me?

sounds like a dumbass!! get him back BIG TIME on that one!!

Give him the address to the house across the street

You bring the salt...I HAVE TEQUILA...all we need are some LIMES!

No he's not a dumbazz,,,, She said everything is fine between them so why are you jealous??????

Some guys just don't get it.Slap the crap out of him.

What a bastard! You deserve better than someone who is willing to do that. He doesn't even deserve to be your friend. That pisses me off... Sorry.. lol struck a nerve

and this is a friend? Ask him if he still knows that guy he use to hang out with "the one you heard has a big wee wee cause your feeling frisky" and when it comes up (and it will) He says hey what about me and you? smile look down at the package giggle and say ohhhh your serious?? hmmm yaaa maybe another time and walk away lol Killer!!!

almost the same thing happened to me and i did "the tummy look" at her I swear shes a gold memeber at jenny craig now..and shes not even fat

We're fine as friends. He apologized for bringing up old feelings without having the intention of following up on them. I told him that it was still awkward for me now that he dug up all of these old feelings again. That doesn't mean that my closest friend/roommate is up for grabs. I felt that was incredibly insensitive. You don't?

Oh, and just to say. I admitted to having feelings for him several months ago and he turned me down. I got over it. And it was just this past weekend when he said he was wrong, and he really does want a relationship with me... but apparently not enough to actually be in one.

Ugh, he's so not worth my time.

Carlito says that's not cool

Sorry to hear that

some people I think like to get a rise out of others...

sounds like he was just playing with you....you can play too....or just forget about him, you deserve way better,pay back day will come

Give him the address to the closest crack house, so you can watch the fun. What a jacka$$.

This guy ain't your friend.... Dump him and quick....

I think he's hunting for a booty call jumping around to see who bites

....looks like the guy has a minus in front of his IQ......

Well, he's certainly barking up the wrong tree.

Did I miss read something????? You are friend's and have no intention of dateing???? I may be weird but don't you think that would be for her to decide if she want's to date this guy?????

Of course it's her place to decide. But after he's essentially rejected me twice, this last time being a few days ago, I would hope that his next target wouldn't be someone that's so close to home for me. Literally.

And more importantly, not stick me in the middle of it.

If his interest in her was a natural progression ie...he spent time with her ect ect. then yes, you shouldn't get in the middle.

But he is putting you there, and that's not what friends do in circumstances such as the one you have explained.

I have a ton of guy friends, and whatver my history with them...be it romantic or not...they don't date my friends, and I don't date theirs.

This guy is very selfish and self centered. LOSE HIM FROM YOUR SPEED DIAL. Kick him to the curb on trash day.