ok ppl, give it to me... be mean.... let me know what's wrong... what's right.... whatever... I promise not to

Doing okay here.

JMO..... and what I have heard from men.

Profiles should be about you... not about what you do and do not want in a partner. I read 99% about what you want. Not about who you are.

Tell the men about you and weed out the ones that don't fit later. Right now it sort of comes across as picky and wishy-washy at the same time. Sorry to be so blunt... but that is my honest opinion.

Crap.I didn't know this was another rate my profile.I thought they were asking if I was okay.

thank you lilith

You are welcome. I have heard from several men if a profile is all about expectations... they just read on and never write a message. Very off putting.

I hope you find that helpful.

I enjoyed reading your profile. It's great to see one that someone put some obvious time and effort into -- after the plethora of "I don't know what to write here" and "I'm a fun girl who likes to have fun" debacles I see in my Mutual Match candidates.

You're very thorough about what it is you want and don't want in a person, and I think that's important and needs to be clearly stated. You've done a good job of that.

I do agree with Lilith that there should probably be more about you yourself as a person. I think who you are is just as important as letting people know what you want and don't want, if not moreso.

It's a very good profile. It could be a little better, with a little more insight into who you are.

Thanks, I'll make some changes tonight.

I actually think it's an interesting profile, and makes me realize how sparse mine is.

Read Lexy's and mine, lol..... his is like a book...pun intended...

Hey, if I just published that as my next book, it sure would save a mess of writing....

The plot is sort of lacking, though....!

No dear.... the plot is called trying to be curmudgeonly & whiny... in an attempt to remain single to fit into desired persona for safety reasons.

Whew!!! You know I love you, right?

Am I really THAT transparent?

Or are you just THAT perceptive?

And here I thought faux cynicism was all the rage....

ok... made some minor changes and add some stuff... will work on putting more on there about me.

I think it is most informative and will diffidently weed the ones you want to weed out....but may also appear like your a tough one to please....good luck

Its good to see how career minded you are, that's very admirable and I wish you all the luck in the world. your children are very lucky. I have to agree with Lilith, We want to know about you. Some of the more intimate details of whats inside of you. 99% of the men that click on you are going to feel shot out of the water before the first paragraph is done. Your going to lose the opportunity of a lifetime with a man that has a heart the size of Texas because he doesn't measure up.
"So to speak" I will add, you write very well.