Yes Exactly... No Paper.
But the reason i added that was a thread that people where commenting marriage and divorce was just a piece of paper...
Not that i thought they where wrong and me right.
I just could not understand how they thought that way.

Well you have some good ideas in some forms here.

You are a younger generation and its still getting worse.

I come from a time and place that does not exist anymore and you are probably to young to have ever seen it. Now, you may have seen parts of it from your parents (and it sounds like that and that is a very good thing) but you have never experiences it through sources outside your family.

Now where and when I was raised, basically the huge majority of the time, you could count on what a person was saying to you, good , bad , or indifferent.

If they said they were going to help you, you could count on that and they would do everything they could. If they said they were going to kick your *ss, then you better get your fists up, because its coming.

And I was never a "me" person, so I can only understand from an outsider's view.

I would easily and without thought of self, stand in front of any kind of harm for someone I loved. I have always cared about those I love more than myself. Not that I have low self esteem or value, I am a very confident person and in who I am. I simply know the true definition of love, which would be careing more about that other person than yourself, without reservation and or agendas, etc.

To find "true love" these days...good luck brother. because you are talking in terms of a marriage style relationship and that takes more than just "love".

It's a relationship that must connect on many levels and can be a complex maze at times. And now we live in a world of the selfish and self-centered, add to that all the confusion and ignorance (in its truest form again), then you would find something extremely rare...and either of you would be fools to ever let that go.

Sounds like you are on a decent road to discovery...hope you find your way!

You know, one thing Ive learned is that life is too short and anything bad can happen at any moment......I know this from experience......so Ive thrown alot of caution to the wind.....went places Ive never been.....basically the fukc it factor and Ive never regretted a single moment!!!

wow for a blue box, you type pretty fast!!

Little brother, just had to add this in to let you think about it.

It seems you have a good mind and starting to ask at least questions...never lose that and always question, always think. You'll still have potholes in life, but a LOT fewer when you put thought into it.

As to people thinking marriage/divorce can be just "on paper", thats simply because thats how they are conditioned (taught in subtle ways) to think.

The IQ in the USA has been dropping significantly for the last 30 years or more. And the issue of "education" has been before our government since I can remember (I am 42).

Now, why hasn;t our government ever fixed our "education" problems?? You think its by accident? Much of what you see is NOT accident, but planned and designed by the powers that be (those pulling the strings behind congress, senate and whitehouse). Now ask WHY???

You answers come in the form of questions....

Which is easier to lead/manipulate..an educated thinker, or an idiot that can't even count back coreect change for a $10 bill?

Which will ask less questions???

Which will more easily conform to "your" ways of doing business, etc?

Starting to see any connections?

Life can actually make a lot more sense once you get past the "weapons of mass distraction" thrown out by our "establishment". They will keep the smoke and mirrors going for as long as they can so they keep the control.

Just something to think about.

lmaoooooooooooooooooo I know who you are!!!!

Ya think??? Wanna bet???

Ya think??? Wanna bet???

Little Brother?he he I'am 41 will be 42 in October so I'am not far behind you

Yes i do know of the staement you speak... so many in history have quoted on it way before the country came pout of diapers...
I heard a declaration once By a Man Named CARMEN... and he spoke very stern on the education system and the binders placed on our system...
I agree our children are learning more lessons in the 3 R's but not absorbing as much as we did on the simple basic structures of the ciriculum.
And between the Goverment and policies and the Media we as parents in this generation have so much more to worry with... then the tools of structured life have been removed from us.. and the children really rule the homes and schools...

If Something wholesome does not reenter this society back to some older methods... i feel Love, Marriage,Family and the lifelong pursuit of happiness will not exsist for the next generation... it is becoming more increasingly dissapearing from our generation... motherless and fatherless homes... who really suffers (WE ALL DO) those un parented children will be running the country when we are to feable to fight.. then what?

I Just Pray God preserves me and my family from the catastrophy that is heading our way...

1-800-gypsyknows

LOL..well chit! My BAD!

I don't look at profiles much. I was thinking you were maybe around 20 or so (my son's age).

No wonder you described the place where you are like that..you are OLD SCHOOL!

I grew up in the mid-west. Not the sharpest tools in the shed, but you could RELY on them!

I sure miss that. I am fortunate, I have some great friends, many 20+ years.

Well I better not give too much away..cause Gypsy is watching and she's trying to guess who I is.

Now see i thought my picture made me look 50 or so

I bet you two of your asian guy pics you don't know Jack!

LOL, sorry bro..I don't look real close at guy pics, actually never pay attention to them. So again, my fault, was just trying to add to your post. From the question itself, I just did that bad thing...assumed...you were much younger.

yep thats me Old school...
Started working in the summers at the age of 9 (tobacco fields)
so i wouldn't have to wear them cardboard rustler pants from the NavY store...

Busted wood, had 3 whole channels on the T.V. (only 1 in the house)
Nothing like my Girls have

Hey thats my imaginary bf eric!!!!