Just wanted to thank the wonderful people at "Just Say Hi!" this is perhaps the BEST of ALL online dating sites! I hope this doesn't sound like I am "pandering" but a truly great site and dedicated group of people-keep up the great work!

Vince

did u find someone who actually had the stamina to get off the computer chair and meet a regular human?.......this truly is blessed- excellent; u deserve happiness!!!

oh hell,i could never dream of having that much stamina!!!

me gets the feeling you aint having any look hun

lol- nono- im takin about the usual gang of frows who waste guys time on this site by promising to get off the computer ( their comfort zone), drop their yodels , gaggle of cats....only to waste our time with their fantasy of discreetness

but this guy possibly found an actual real woman who isnt judgemental and sweet to boot - and they will go far ...

too bad some gals dont get the hint that it doesnt pay to be overlychoosy...

on a better note- he's a military man and not ugly at all...best wishes to you!!!

lol all good hun..yeh me found someone on here ..so does work if you put the effort in lol

not true, beautiful- i did find this awful seahag under the pseudium of being a normal- baggage free woman, only to find out that dating cathy bate's misery charactor wouldve been more fun...and the few i do get turned down by usually comes back to this site and posts a hate-rant about how awful men are-not realizing it was their stupid fantasy for needing a creepy fonzie - like machoman which caused their suffering....actually, sometimes it's better to be turned down....

lol guess you picked the wrong one then lol...it happens took me a year of perverted idiots to find this guy...but its better than been groped in a club..plus ive made some chat buddies..lol you will find i always look on the bright side

LOl, well I just had to laugh at your post cause even though its sad, it is true sometimes. Seems like there are too many people online who want the "fantasy" of it all but aren't interested in the real person behind the screen. I met someone online (by accident actually cause I wasnt really "looking" at the time) and not to be all mushy or anything (hehe) but he and I are soul mates and have made it work in real life. Soooo it can happen :) Oh and if I were single I would certainly think you were wayyy better than a macho fonzie type lol

i wanna be groped by a hot female in a club

im sure you do lol

Hi to everyone by the way :)

Only in a club? Boy thats pretty specific ;)

btw- congrats on finding a good man- at least you have good judgement...most of the gals on this site post the most wonderful profile- and usually beat men 100 fold in the creepy factor - as for trying to put more effort, either someone like me for being me- not what their yapping ,cacling hens / friends expect them to date....most girls get run down because instead of thinking for themselves-decides to listen to their friends...who by the way, arent doin so hot in the dating dept...but decides to whisper in their friend's ear that it's better to date someone based on looks rather to think for herself and choose someone below her standard...

btw- it does the heart good to see a choosy person fall - and hypocritically sob to the masses....

Well, not all girls are like that... truly :) Actually I think men and women both are guilty of doing that kinda thing and it makes me sad, because if more people would actually get to know someone before judging them there would for sure be a ton more happy relationships.

Honestly (and I'm not just trying to be flirty or something) I think you're really attractive so I hope you don't think these women are thinking you are below their standards... I couldn't imagine it. I don't base who I like on looks, but I'm not blind, hehe

Oh, and thanks for the "congrats"! :)

awww- thanks, ladywilde!!!!

was i right?

some of the overlychoosy divas do find their way back to this site- crying for support- only to be ripped on because of her pridefullness .....for those being choosy, remember this; most of you are too choosy to be old, and equally smart when picking someone-stop trying to be ultracool and fashionable by picking up some goateed badboy because its what your friends expect of you- because in the end, it's YOU who have to endure his @$$ on a daily basis......

btw- congrats for finally finding the " one", you two- not all guys are like the ones you've had before-

...older overlychoosy women- make your choice before what's left of your eggs develop into mongloid pods-then we'll have to endure having to endure you posting how you've outused your shelflife!!

overlychoosy younger frows- not all men want to procreate with you, most of us actually want someone to complete them...and at least have the respect of saying your not interested...remember that beauty fades, and there will be a time when you'll be just as unappreciated as the guys you're smarming...

wow- extra kudos, sweety!!!!

girls- use good judgment when choosing someone - and please dont meet this said guy in a dark, crowded nightclub- where u know there'd be grinding and actual contact...again-it's all about being safe, and putting yourself in a spot where you know there'd be no way to avoid felling in an unappreciated party....

lol believe me hun they knew not to toush a second time...i like my dancing and should ne able to do it without the hands on lol

lol - both of you are really pretty....sad that youre both taken and live in different states- on a brighter note, youre both happy and fulfilled with good men- look me up if either one of you becomes single cuz good women are hard to find- especially in jersey......most dress in awful midwest 80's clothing- complete with stupid sideways scrungy and stretchypants.....think Napolian dynomite's town and see what i have to choose from.....(slowly goin into a fetal position uder the desk and suckin my thumb...)

im in a different country hun..i would be careful going out in jersey now if any of those ladies read this lol