Topic: What fi you just know?
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Sun 04/13/08 07:38 PM

I know, but as similar as we are, you are so different than me in that area.....You're much stronger


Excuses, excuses...

Being strong is a choice. Being a Mother you make that choice every day. Being patient is a choice.. Being open to what you don't know, is a choice.

Lilith and I choose to be strong..daily. Some days are better then others.. Some days I carry the ball, some days she does.

Neither of us know exactly how things are going to work out at this time.. But we both know we want it to... and that has to be enough.

The fact is? Neither of us is strong alone, in this.. Together though? We stand a chance of working it out and being less then 2000 miles apart in the near future.

Should you find someone who lives far away and can't seem to make a break for it in their life, you in yours.. That is the way it is today.. But we just do not know what tomorrow brings, do we?

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Sun 04/13/08 07:39 PM

And I'm guessin this one is even worse yet......laugh laugh laugh laugh


Oh no that's WAY better.....drinker

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Sun 04/13/08 07:40 PM


I know, but as similar as we are, you are so different than me in that area.....You're much stronger


Excuses, excuses...

Being strong is a choice. Being a Mother you make that choice every day. Being patient is a choice.. Being open to what you don't know, is a choice.

Lilith and I choose to be strong..daily. Some days are better then others.. Some days I carry the ball, some days she does.

Neither of us know exactly how things are going to work out at this time.. But we both know we want it to... and that has to be enough.

The fact is? Neither of us is strong alone, in this.. Together though? We stand a chance of working it out and being less then 2000 miles apart in the near future.

Should you find someone who lives far away and can't seem to make a break for it in their life, you in yours.. That is the way it is today.. But we just do not know what tomorrow brings, do we?


You know what I hate about you Jist? I can't ever argue with you.grumble grumble grumble grumble

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Sun 04/13/08 07:40 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Sun 04/13/08 07:41 PM
See Lily.... you could be passing up some great stuff. Let nothing go until you know he is not worthy.

Arguing with Jist is terrible. I hate it. I use that word correctly, I believe, and not lightly.

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Sun 04/13/08 07:41 PM
I would keep talking as "the one" he would be my best friend anyways and I sure would not want to lose that. As long as we both are in agreement that we would never be able to be together then we would support each other in our new relationships with others

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Sun 04/13/08 07:50 PM

See Lily.... you could be passing up some great stuff. Let nothing go until you know he is not worthy.

Arguing with Jist is terrible. I hate it. I use that word correctly, I believe, and not lightly.


Oh I don't hate him..... I'm just used to being able to argue a point, and he is so complete with his arguements......DAMN IT.

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Sun 04/13/08 08:00 PM
I'le trie two dum dwon four yu sum...


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Sun 04/13/08 08:01 PM
Oh yeah? :tongue:

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Sun 04/13/08 08:04 PM

I'le trie two dum dwon four yu sum...




Nasty......grumble grumble

It was a compliment....flowerforyou

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Sun 04/13/08 08:06 PM

That perfect person for you is there, but no chance in ever being with them? Do you continue to talk to them, or do you let it go?
Im sorry Lily.... I could never work between us...laugh

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Sun 04/13/08 08:07 PM
Oh yeah? :tongue:

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Sun 04/13/08 08:07 PM

Oh yeah? :tongue:



Hey.. It could happen! It's almost instantaneous if I start drinking.

Actually.. She just agrees with me.. It isn't so much whether I am right, wrong, better or worse.. She just probably knows she can end up in the same boat lilith and I are, should the right guy comes along.... and it probably scares the piss out of her.

My best advice is.. Stop future tripping.. There will be plenty of time for that after you actually meet the guy!

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Sun 04/13/08 08:09 PM


That perfect person for you is there, but no chance in ever being with them? Do you continue to talk to them, or do you let it go?
Im sorry Lily.... I could never work between us...laugh


Uhm, ya, cuz your married and live with your wife and kids...that may have more than something to do with it.....

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Sun 04/13/08 08:18 PM
There ya go Lily.... U answered your own mail... didnt you?

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Sun 04/13/08 08:19 PM
Lily, that is a tough one. If you are for sure that they are the "right" one for you, I would say to continue contact if you can and see what happens in the future. Long distant relationships are hard on both parties but I have seen it done. Takes alot of trust and conviction. Good luck flowerforyou

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Sun 04/13/08 08:19 PM

That perfect person for you is there, but no chance in ever being with them? Do you continue to talk to them, or do you let it go?
flowerforyou I know there is someone for me flowerforyou

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Sun 04/13/08 08:20 PM
I'm perfect for me. You can come along if you want though. flowerforyou

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Sun 04/13/08 08:21 PM

There ya go Lily.... U answered your own mail... didnt you?


Hey John, go back to your cute little thread where because I find it discusting that a married man comes on here and flirts relentlessly with women, that makes me the butt of YOUR joke....

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Sun 04/13/08 08:26 PM
Check everyone on my friends list... mail them, they know... and they took the time to get to know the whole story......

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Sun 04/13/08 08:27 PM

I'm perfect for me. You can come along if you want though. flowerforyou


I like your attitude there doll.....flowerforyou