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Topic: Tipsy question for the night
1socialbutterfly Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 222	Sat 04/12/08 09:50 PM
Sorta calling the kettle black, are you? (kidding!) Anywhoo- it's NOT okay for anyone to act like they're single when they're married. That includes goin' out and getting stinko every night. Not only is it inconsiderate, but it shows that he just doesn't have much of anything in terms of interest or care with regard to the marriage. And then there's THIS to consider- if the cad is runnin' about town gettin' plotzed, chances are he's doing other stuff unbefitting a marriage too, like adultery. My only hope is that this friend hasn't had any kids in this marriage, as they'll inevitably be the ones to face the brunt of the arguments and other bad behavior from these troubles. I know this, as I had to witness this kind of crappitude as a child. I don't want to change the subject, but I WILL say that it's not fun in the least. Ok I have had a few, i.e. my bill was less than $20. They do have 2 girls together who were at the grandparents house. They had this huge blow up this morning and then tonight he goes out again and send her a text saying he's gonna be late but noy 6:30. By the way his bill is running over $70 a night just on beer. Oh and it wouldn't be the first time he's stepped out on their relationsip, this was in the 1st year of marriage.

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 04/12/08 09:51 PM
Not just men that do it....... But I do think men and women do it for different reasons. When it come to guys we like to play, feed our egos and treat the one that is the most important person in our lives like crap, just because we think we can. It is a sense that we pay the bills, we are them or just because we think we can. Taking the one we love for granted is a mistake far too many of my brothers make and many of us have paid dearly for it, including me. Amen bro'

FETTS61 Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 31425	Sat 04/12/08 09:54 PM
THATS THE THINGS I USED TO DO B-4 I GOT SOBER COULD BE ALCHOHOLISM OR ADDICTION

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Sat 04/12/08 10:02 PM
If he's out to those hour's, I'll bet he's spending his night's drinking AND SLEEPING the night's away with another woman. He's got to sleep so....he need's a place to do that. So, now he's got atlaest two stupid women taling his crap. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be disrespectfull toward's your friend. But, he's already left her.

nichols79 Joined Fri 03/28/08 Posts: 24	Sat 04/12/08 10:10 PM
If you're married you don't go out and drink every night. Cause if your spouse is I will bet you 10-1 that person is cheating. Female or Male

darkowl1 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 13060	Sat 04/12/08 10:11 PM Edited by darkowl1 on Sat 04/12/08 10:15 PM
when a person is on substances, thinking clearly is impossible, especially when binge drinking is the culprit, because they don't have a drink in their hand everyday, they don't think they have a problem, when the problem is doubled, because the body is taxed twice as hard...tell her to be careful, bingers can be violent. binge drinkers will sleep around, yes, but they really like to drink instead...sometimes into the next day or two,...or three!! this is common in new orleans. i hope this helps!!

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Sat 04/12/08 10:14 PM
They think they act stupid is because they think they can get away with it

Italy0219 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2523	Sat 04/12/08 10:18 PM
help i spilled the bong................................. i smoked mine, lol, thank god...

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Sat 04/12/08 11:45 PM
Sorta calling the kettle black, are you? (kidding!) Anywhoo- it's NOT okay for anyone to act like they're single when they're married. That includes goin' out and getting stinko every night. Not only is it inconsiderate, but it shows that he just doesn't have much of anything in terms of interest or care with regard to the marriage. And then there's THIS to consider- if the cad is runnin' about town gettin' plotzed, chances are he's doing other stuff unbefitting a marriage too, like adultery. My only hope is that this friend hasn't had any kids in this marriage, as they'll inevitably be the ones to face the brunt of the arguments and other bad behavior from these troubles. I know this, as I had to witness this kind of crappitude as a child. I don't want to change the subject, but I WILL say that it's not fun in the least. Damn good point bro. I got your back on this one. I was married for almost 24 years. My wife passed away a year ago in Jan. I never and I mean never went out on her or went out all hours of the night running around. If we went out till all hours, we were together. A married man or a married woman has no damn business being out by them self all hours of the night. Thanx for taking the time to read this. Hopefully Moo`s and my opinion will sink in somewhere it is needed.