Topic: Do you know who you are?
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Sat 04/12/08 10:54 AM
The advice I hear a lot in relationships is "Be yourself."

The "Take me as I am." attitude is fine, but not if you are a jerk and not willing to become a better person.

In order to "Be yourself" you have to know who your are, and many people don't really know much about themselves.

Some people don't even know how to be honest with themselves.

In order to be yourself you have to have some sort of self image.

How well do you know yourself?
Do you know who you are?
Do you know what you want?
What do you have to offer to another person?





MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 04/12/08 10:58 AM
:smile: too introspective for me.......flowerforyou

zanne46's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:03 AM
1. extremely wellll....

2. yes, i do

3.very very much so

4.a whole lot....and i will only share me with that person...when that person shows up...

bad_girl's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:04 AM
I know who I am, I am honest, caring and compassionate. I know myself well enough to know that I will not be used or taken advantage of ever again. I have become strong over the past years, had to be.

I want simple things in life, a good man and a relationship with honesty and communication, very important.

I have a lot of love for the man in my life. I always give 100% of myself when with a man, and although a man can't always do that I am willing to accept him for that regardless.

And yes, be yourself is very important, I learned that as a result of the fear I had about meeting someone new. He accepted me for me and that is what it is all about.


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Sat 04/12/08 11:04 AM
I have realized that I know very little about anything.....but I'm learning more and more each day.

Jill298's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:15 AM
yes, I know who I am. Took me long enough to figure that outlaugh laugh but I know who I am... and I like me alotdrinker

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:23 AM
I know exactly who I am.

I'm a racy, edgy, confident woman. Quite intelligent and witty. I'm corporate. Sophisticated city. Great sense of humor and FUN to be with. Sensual and sexy. Passionate about life & love. Intense in my emotions. Especially when it comes to football devil

I know I love FAST & life on the edge. Love rock music, have rhythm in my soul. I'm a fast lane kinda personality. Color outside the lines. Take risks. Establish the beachhead. I'm always the one to speak my mind & take one for the team. LMAO

I am NOT a groupie & will do something different just to BE different. *sigh* I know. I'm hopeless laugh

I can be a spoiled brat .. and a b*tch, but I turn it around to have fun so you'll always forgive me :tongue: I love fine things..champagne taste/beer pocket book. So what? That's what credit is for laugh

I adore my kids, God and am a loyal friend. I care about the down and out, especially kids. I'm not real 'merciful' and don't like listening to sob stories or attending pity parties, but I'll defend someone to the death if they are being bullied.

I stand up for what I believe to be right. huh Heck, I could start a cult.

Come to think of it .. I might have already laugh laugh


Damn did I just rewrite my profile?

bastet126's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:25 AM
i'm a train wreck - still trying to figure it all out.

ericthall's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:28 AM

The advice I hear a lot in relationships is "Be yourself."

The "Take me as I am." attitude is fine, but not if you are a jerk and not willing to become a better person.

In order to "Be yourself" you have to know who your are, and many people don't really know much about themselves.

Some people don't even know how to be honest with themselves.

In order to be yourself you have to have some sort of self image.

How well do you know yourself?
Do you know who you are?
Do you know what you want?
What do you have to offer to another person?





Very antilitical even to myself...
Yes I know who I'am inside and out
Know exactly what i want and will not settle for anything less
I have so much to offer.
True Love from the heart
Security in devotion
safety in protection
Gentle in matters fragile
Monetary resources abundant.
Trust in honesty
Faith in Grace
Confidence in position
peace in joy
and so many more...

floh's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:29 AM
i think as long as you live you're never done learning...

as to the questions...


in the last year i have learned a lot more about myself, simply because i couldnt be who i am when i was married, so...

very well
yes
yes
me

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Sat 04/12/08 11:30 AM
I dont believe any of us know truely who we are.....We may think we do....I am very comfortable with who I think I am.

I have found that life presents us with many challenges and how we react is sometimes a surprises to us...each day I learn something new about myself, and I perceive that to be a good thing.

bad_girl's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:30 AM
drinker drinker

I know exactly who I am.

I'm a racy, edgy, confident woman. Quite intelligent and witty. I'm corporate. Sophisticated city. Great sense of humor and FUN to be with. Sensual and sexy. Passionate about life & love. Intense in my emotions. Especially when it comes to football devil

I know I love FAST & life on the edge. Love rock music, have rhythm in my soul. I'm a fast lane kinda personality. Color outside the lines. Take risks. Establish the beachhead. I'm always the one to speak my mind & take one for the team. LMAO

I am NOT a groupie & will do something different just to BE different. *sigh* I know. I'm hopeless laugh

I can be a spoiled brat .. and a b*tch, but I turn it around to have fun so you'll always forgive me :tongue: I love fine things..champagne taste/beer pocket book. So what? That's what credit is for laugh

I adore my kids, God and am a loyal friend. I care about the down and out, especially kids. I'm not real 'merciful' and don't like listening to sob stories or attending pity parties, but I'll defend someone to the death if they are being bullied.

I stand up for what I believe to be right. huh Heck, I could start a cult.

Come to think of it .. I might have already laugh laugh


Damn did I just rewrite my profile?

Monier's photo
Sat 04/12/08 11:34 AM
How well do you know yourself?

*Immensely. I never suprise myself with what to do or say.

Do you know who you are?

*yes. All of the good and quirks, it makes me who I am.

Do you know what you want?

*More than anything.

What do you have to offer to another person?

*Empathy, loyalty, insight, good intentions, selflessness, it goes on and on. I more than offer it, it's who I am every day.

no photo
Sat 04/12/08 12:52 PM

I dont believe any of us know truely who we are.....We may think we do....I am very comfortable with who I think I am.

I have found that life presents us with many challenges and how we react is sometimes a surprises to us...each day I learn something new about myself, and I perceive that to be a good thing.



Very wise and honest assessment IMO.

As far as personality, I have had a difficult time knowing myself because there seems to be so many of me inside, all with different points of view.

I sometimes don't even agree with myself.. or else I have multiple personalities in here.

Put them all together, they get along okay. But every moment of my life is an awakening.

JB

LAMom's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:02 PM
How well do you know yourself?
Very well, although it took me along time to see
the real me,,

Do you know who you are?
I am a mother , a friend, I cry and laugh all in the same breathe,, I fall and get up, I have overcome adversity,and have so much more in life to learn,,

Do you know what you want?
Calm, Love, Understanding,, Agreeing to dis-agree, Respect, The never ending Circle.....!!??

What do you have to offer to another person?
Respect,,, All that he offers to me,, and more


dungonmasterRJ's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:03 PM

How well do you know yourself?
Very well, although it took me along time to see
the real me,,

Do you know who you are?
I am a mother , a friend, I cry and laugh all in the same breathe,, I fall and get up, I have overcome adversity,and have so much more in life to learn,,

Do you know what you want?
Calm, Love, Understanding,, Agreeing to dis-agree, Respect, The never ending Circle.....!!??

What do you have to offer to another person?
Respect,,, All that he offers to me,, and more



(((mom)))flowerforyou

Totage's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:04 PM

The advice I hear a lot in relationships is "Be yourself."

The "Take me as I am." attitude is fine, but not if you are a jerk and not willing to become a better person.

In order to "Be yourself" you have to know who your are, and many people don't really know much about themselves.

Some people don't even know how to be honest with themselves.

In order to be yourself you have to have some sort of self image.

How well do you know yourself?
Do you know who you are?
Do you know what you want?
What do you have to offer to another person?







I know myself pretty well, and I'm honest with myself. I learn more about myself everyday (my limitations, my abilities, etc.)

sleeplessingermany's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:05 PM
...i am not sure who i am exactly, but i am getting to know myself a lot better with each day...bigsmile

LAMom's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:06 PM


How well do you know yourself?
Very well, although it took me along time to see
the real me,,

Do you know who you are?
I am a mother , a friend, I cry and laugh all in the same breathe,, I fall and get up, I have overcome adversity,and have so much more in life to learn,,

Do you know what you want?
Calm, Love, Understanding,, Agreeing to dis-agree, Respect, The never ending Circle.....!!??

What do you have to offer to another person?
Respect,,, All that he offers to me,, and more



(((mom)))flowerforyou


((( RJ ))))) Hello Cutie Pie,, smooched flowerforyou

dungonmasterRJ's photo
Sat 04/12/08 03:11 PM



How well do you know yourself?
Very well, although it took me along time to see
the real me,,

Do you know who you are?
I am a mother , a friend, I cry and laugh all in the same breathe,, I fall and get up, I have overcome adversity,and have so much more in life to learn,,

Do you know what you want?
Calm, Love, Understanding,, Agreeing to dis-agree, Respect, The never ending Circle.....!!??

What do you have to offer to another person?
Respect,,, All that he offers to me,, and more



(((mom)))flowerforyou


((( RJ ))))) Hello Cutie Pie,, smooched flowerforyou

how are ya smooched flowerforyou