Topic: what to do?
soncatcher's photo
Thu 01/18/07 08:02 PM
Thu 01/18/07 07:51 PM
I need some help guys and gals, i AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GUY WHO
HAS NEVER HAD ANY KIDS. i HAVE 2 GROWN DAUGHERS and 1 has 3 children.
Sorry about the caps.. but anyway sometimes they need halp with bills or
groceries, not real often but often enough. Dave gets upset with me if I
send them any money. and no Its not his money I'm sending. I work for
what I have. What is yor take on this?

PublicAnimalNo9's photo
Thu 01/18/07 08:14 PM
as long as they're not burdening you, and you can afford to help from
time to time, then why shouldn't you. As long as you want to help her
out and it doesn't make you 2 short on anything, then I don't see what
his prob is.
I guess the question is, is this something you want to keep doing? Maybe
he's just worried it won't ever stop and it could reach the point where
it's starting to affect your guys bottom line.

soncatcher's photo
Thu 01/18/07 08:21 PM
Maybe so, He has money. I don't have much but I am the type of person
that would help anyone in need not just my kids. he on the other hand is
not that way. What is his is his. I mean he likes the finer things in
life and will spend on me. but to just give anyone who needs help it is
not him.

PublicAnimalNo9's photo
Thu 01/18/07 08:39 PM
are there other areas where your ideologies are at odds?