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Topic: Would you butt in if...
dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:12 PM
you thought that someone you cared a great deal about could lose the love of their life if you kept mum?

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 04/09/08 01:13 PM
you thought that someone you cared a great deal about could lose the love of their life if you kept mum? i dont understand??

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Wed 04/09/08 01:14 PM
Sounds like the love is one sided to begin with.Tell them.

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:15 PM
Sounds like the love is one sided to begin with.Tell them. I'd say that's most likely. Thank you!

cdanny47 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2328	Wed 04/09/08 01:15 PM
Yes,,,, I would and have done it,,,,

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:18 PM
you thought that someone you cared a great deal about could lose the love of their life if you kept mum? i dont understand?? Simple...do you disclose personal information to someone who could benefit from it or is that still rumor mongering?

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 04/09/08 01:19 PM
Most likely not, but I would need to know the specifics

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 04/09/08 01:19 PM Edited by Derekkye on Wed 04/09/08 01:19 PM
In love - Definately - you don't want to hear down the road - "why didn't you say or do anything"?

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:20 PM
In love - Definately - you don't want to hear down the road - "why didn't you say or do anything"? So then you'd say it's almost the duty of the friend to intervene?

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Wed 04/09/08 01:22 PM
you thought that someone you cared a great deal about could lose the love of their life if you kept mum? why are you letting everyone know we are having problems? lol

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:27 PM
Most likely not, but I would need to know the specifics Ok, for instance, a woman you know and care about is about to lose their boyfriend. The boyfriend is a friend of yours and just happens to tell you how much they care about your gal pal. Do you feel you should tell the friend about this knowledge if you feel it might make a difference?

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:27 PM
you thought that someone you cared a great deal about could lose the love of their life if you kept mum? why are you letting everyone know we are having problems? lol

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 04/09/08 01:28 PM
look, if a person emails you and says that they are leaving the site, they have too many issues to deal with, and you don;t mean enough to stay in contact with because you are a fairy tale, there is nothing left to be said chick. making a post like this with half information, and making it appear one sided is assinine. When things get tough people lean on friends, they do not throw them away like a used latex glove

Myisland50 Joined Thu 07/19/07 Posts: 6517	Wed 04/09/08 01:30 PM
look, if a person emails you and says that they are leaving the site, they have too many issues to deal with, and you don;t mean enough to stay in contact with because you are a fairy tale, there is nothing left to be said chick. making a post like this with half information, and making it appear one sided is assinine. When things get tough people lean on friends, they do not throw them away like a used latex glove

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 04/09/08 01:30 PM
As long as you are not violating something that was clearly said in confidence, then sure I would speak up. You might even wind up seeing a happy ending

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:41 PM
look, if a person emails you and says that they are leaving the site, they have too many issues to deal with, and you don;t mean enough to stay in contact with because you are a fairy tale, there is nothing left to be said chick. making a post like this with half information, and making it appear one sided is assinine. When things get tough people lean on friends, they do not throw them away like a used latex glove I don't know how to do that...maybe you can show me.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 04/09/08 01:42 PM
look, if a person emails you and says that they are leaving the site, they have too many issues to deal with, and you don;t mean enough to stay in contact with because you are a fairy tale, there is nothing left to be said chick. making a post like this with half information, and making it appear one sided is assinine. When things get tough people lean on friends, they do not throw them away like a used latex glove I don't know how to do that...maybe you can show me. show you how to do what?

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Wed 04/09/08 01:55 PM
look, if a person emails you and says that they are leaving the site, they have too many issues to deal with, and you don;t mean enough to stay in contact with because you are a fairy tale, there is nothing left to be said chick. making a post like this with half information, and making it appear one sided is assinine. When things get tough people lean on friends, they do not throw them away like a used latex glove I don't know how to do that...maybe you can show me. show you how to do what? be thrown away like a used latex glove.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 04/09/08 01:56 PM
you thought that someone you cared a great deal about could lose the love of their life if you kept mum? It depends on the circumstances.

sleeplessingermany Joined Thu 03/13/08 Posts: 1490	Wed 04/09/08 02:38 PM
i would and i hope hope my best friend would do the same for me if the roles were reversed.